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As a wise person once said, You never get a second chance to make a first impression.
So I will do my best to make a good first impression. I believe in honesty, so what you see is what you get. Theres a certain amount of exhilaration in just putting yourself out there, warts and all, and finding like-minded people you can relate with. It also allows those looking for perfection or a specific ideal to quickly decide to move on.
SEEKING friendship, discussion and hopefully an online TPE relationship, that is based on mutual trust and mutual satisfaction of needs. I am open to in-person relationships, but given my schedule an online friendshipcorrespondence that develops into true TPE would be best. This is new for me, as Ive always been a hands-on guy (theres a pun for you). How can you tie up and k someone via a computer? How can I see the total submission in her eyes? So yeah, theres that. I am hoping that the online version at least gives a hint of what I can do in real life. To be clear, Im not looking for webcamming or any sort of payment thing. I am looking for a submissive (or slave). I prefer someone who enjoys writing with her head and sharing from her heart. I dont think online anything could work well for someone not open to giving ALL of herself, although I see how hiding behind anonymity is necessary at first.
About me
I am a Dominant
I hate labels, but I use them to keep things understandable
I am funny, loyal, and approachable but when needed I am also serious, stern and strict
I am alive when I connect with a consenting, submissive woman who is equally alive under the control of a Dominant
I relish controlling both the little and big things in a womans life
I am not an prototypical Alpha male no one would confuse me with a bad boy personality but I surprisingly get what I want most of the time
I live a life of quiet confidence and dont need to brag about accomplishments or material things to feel complete
I use my brain to make decisions, but my heart is always consulted
I am pretty kinky, in that I am accepting on most consensual adult activities and even those I dont enjoy I dont judge
I respect non-consensual fantasies (but still need consent to take it beyond fantasy)
I believe a certain percentage of women are inherently submissive and will be forever lost unless they accept that part of themselves
I enjoy inflicting pain, but only with those who enjoy or need it, often pushing your limits (but stopping once arrived)
I think the best sexual turn-on happens when a submissives mind is putty in my hands
I can get off on humiliating women, if they thrive on being degraded or used
I hold open doors for women and am generally a nice guy in public. In private, well that just depends right?
I have a career that requires me to delegate and give up control, as I cant be everywhere. I chafes me and I need other release.
I crave to micromanage someone who needs the structure and direction in her life
I dont have time to micromanage every second of a submissives life so therein lies the dilemma. I can only train her so she generally knows what I want, even when Im not there to decide.
I believe the most satisfying connection occurs when the submissive is in the head of her Dominant. By that I mean that she knows everything he wants, anticipates his needs and follows through.
So my warts (or features, depending on how you look at it)
I work a lot (Im a workaholic). I am successful in my career and enjoy what I do.
I travel a LOT and I am often in new places every few days
I am married to a woman I love deeply. She is submissive by nature, although I did not nurture our Ds relationship during our early years and it shows now. We have a mostly vanilla relationship after having children, with just some trappings of Ds.
I have two younger children, which makes Ds relationships difficult at home. Im really curious about how others have handled this.
I am seeking an ONLINE, mostly in writing, relationship to augment my current life and to give back to someone in need of control and TPE in their life. Ideally someone in a relationship, or single but not in a rush for a permanent relationship, or someone at least open to trying a low-risk situation out with me.
I am not looking to leave my wife or disrupt our marriage at most, should things move that way, a place in our household is a possibility
I dont need to sneak around (my wife knows my needs)
I am pretty much an open book and once I trust you (and you trust me) I expect that we will eventually share details. I am not looking an anonymous relationship.
I want to know you, completely and fully. What makes you tick and how I can train you to be more.
I am only interested in females and am not interested in males, transgendered or non-binary (this is my preference, please respect that and save your offers for someone who clearly wants what you have to offer).
Some things I know
Being a Dominant is actually hard work and takes a LOT of time
The best submissives know that they have to work equally hard to make the relationship work
Being a submissive is a mindset you either have or dont (nothing wrong either way, but know thyself)
All of these are close but only one of the following is completely true about me
(1) my name is Dan
(2) I wrote a book
(3) I inspect airport runways for a living
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