I have to update May 2021 as I appear to be attracting too many incompatible people. It is not my intention for the preferences below to sound like a list of commands, I just want to be clear about certain things that matter to me in order not to waste your (or my) time.

I need a very strong hand.

He needs to be available - SO NOT MARRIED OR PARTNERED.

He has to be very experienced in the DM role.

He has to be 6 ft plus... just my thing.

He has to be looking for just one person.

He has to be around 52-62 and active!

If you dont fit the above (or below) there is no point in messaging.
I am sorry if this sounds too picky and direct but I think it best to be honest.

I have a range of pictures on Fl showing my journey so far.

Not quite so new to BDSM anymore but will always have
much to learn and explore about myself and others. With this in mind my profile will continue to be a work in progress for quite some time I would hope.
I am an educated submissive who wants to be loved and abused, used and controlled in equal measures. l need to be with an experienced Dominant male who can traininstruct me in the art (both physically and psychologically) to help quench my thirst for knowledge and experience, believing and knowing that you can never exhaust your learning capabilities.
Experience so far has revealed that I am suited to being tightly ropeleather bound with sensory deprivation accompanied by king, flogging, paddling or whipping. I have found a particular love for the single tail...at this point.
I have found that being caged appeals to me immensely alongside associated activities and have a real curiosity about being boxed. I have a keen desire, yearning and willingness to explore bondage (in particular dilemma bondage), CP and confinement further, to discover and push my limits. I also have an ongoing desire for further inverted suspension with punishment...
I came across a new word sometime ago (thanks to a particular Doms profile) - merinthophilia. I think then, that I must be a merinthophiliac...
I no longer ponder the fact that I have never had a true caning - have now experienced the rising welts and surging pain that arises and subsides intermittently...and I want more...
I muse about the fact that I am a little bit scared of ass play even though I know I ultimately want the insertion of my ass hook...
Breath play is something that I have encountered and have very much enjoyed in context...but approach with much caution and only with a wholly trusted partner.
I enjoy tasks and challenges as they keep my interest and focus.
I relish psychological and physical struggle in order to better myself to be the best I can be...this of course is and will be a progressive process.