Having issues with my original profile, so I decided to create a new one.

I am a dominant and have been one since I was 20 and an ex suggested I try tying her and I was hooked ever since. Since then I have experienced a lot of different kinks and fetishes. With my experience, my likes and dislikes have evolved. Pretty much from the beginning I have thought of myself as a sadist. Once I experienced impact play, I was hooked. To me, there is nothing better than holding a cane in my hand and making impact against a submissives skin. From the sound she makes to the mark it leaves, I enjoy every part of it. But I do enjoy a wide range of kinks and fetishes.

I am 6'1 tall, have brown hair with a reddish tint which lightens in the summer to a strawberry blond and darkens in the winter to a brownish copper, green eyes. I am a fan of movies, though I feel like Im lacking as I havent been to the movies in months. Im a big sports guy, hockey and soccer are my favorites, though I do watch football most weekends.

Trust and respect are two things which must be strong in any ds relationship, especially mine. Respect is something that should be shown from both sides from the start. Trust is a bit more complicated. The level of trust is something which must be built over time. While there will be a level of trust to start with, that is not enough to do certain things.

Communication is very important to me. I want there to always be an open line of communication between myself and my sub. Whatever you are feeling, I would like to know about it, especially during play sessions. I do use a 2 safety word system while playing. One to pause and one to stop. And they can be said, or motioned if speaking is not an option at a particular moment, and the proper actions will be taken. I like to discuss things so I know how you are feeling about them.

I am looking for a sub or slave who wants to be strictly monogamous. While the thought of owning a harem of submissives is appealing, I feel that I could not share my time and effort equally amongst each sub. That means in order for me to consider you as my subslave, you must be single. I would be open to having a play partner who is poly, but your partner(s) will be aware of this.

A masochist is the preferred type of submissive I am looking for. However, you enjoying pain is not a requirement as long as you can handle pain. While I do describe myself as nurturing, I am not looking for a little. Having little tendencies is fine, but not a full fledged little. Pets are okay, preferably puppies, kittens or something similar, but no ponies.

I would like someone who is submissive to me between the two of us, but wants the vanilla world to see and think of us as any other vanilla couple. While we are in public, I want you to behave and act vanilla, but knowing that if you go too far with something, a look from me will tell you that you had better stop or be prepared to face punishment next time we are alone.

I am not attracted to any particular shapes or sizes, I find the female body beautiful. You should also know I am a complete breast guy. The ass is nice and I enjoy playing with it, but I am all about the breasts. Whether you have small A cups that dont require a bra, or giant breasts that you should wear a back brace to help support them, I love them.

I am open to age, but I do have some restrictions. You must be at least 18, as I have no desire to go to jail. As far as upper age limit, I would say 40ish to be my submissive. If you are older, I am open to being play partners, but we would have to have a lot of kinks and fetishes in common.

I want to help my sub achieve her goals, whatever they may be. That means I will push you. If I have to get mean and nasty, I can and will do it. I believe perfection is unattainable, but there are always things that can be worked on.

I believe my subslave is my most prized possession. While I will use and abuse it at times, I will always cherish it. I am possessive and protective of my submissive.

We all have our hard and soft limits. I respect all limits that are given.

I am sure there is more I can add, and will do so as I think of them. But for now, I believe this is sufficient. So if youve made it this far and like what I have to say, then send me a message and we can chat. You can ask me anything. With communication and trust being so important, lying or refusing to answer a question ruins both of those. Which is why you will get truthful, honest answers.