Hello...I have been on and off CS since it was CM, back in 2005. Wow has it changed over the years!! I guess I get drawn to the idea of making friends and maybe more with that one special Dom who gets me...you know, who really understands me even when I dont understand myself. A Dom who is not intimidated by an intelligent sexy woman and who is even turned on by a sapio-sexual interest. My kinks are probably what some would describe as limited because Im rather green in the lifestyle yet hopeful I can grow and learn more in so many ways with the right, trusting, humble Dom. Being Italian and from New York, I have an air about me that is humorous and quick witted slathered in compassion and innate submission. I think friendship is a safe, reasonable agenda in the beginning, especially when a Dom and sub are involved. Long distance has been an elusive variable for many years for me and I am becoming more discouraged by the idea of it when chatting never leads to anything real. I am multiculturally sensitive and open minded to diversity issues; I am not interested in wasting time on those who are not. Stay happy and healthy