Passion and truth, that is all we need.

I am a lifestyle submissive. However, my personality is not demure or submissive. I am not looking for a hookup. I want more than just a bedroom relationship.

Borrowing from a friends profile, this pretty much sums me up I am deeply submissive, yearning to find a man of honour, integrity and character to serve and please. The words helpless, exposed and vulnerable strike a chord deep within me yet they seem to be a million miles away on the other side of a mountain of trust.

I would like a relationship that is comfortable and fun but still genuinely Ds. My idea of a relationship is not one where you walk on eggshells at all times for fear of being punished for the most minor of honest mistakes. But rather, one where we serve one another whole heartedly in our roles and enjoy ourselves along the way with neither one of us taking it all too seriously.

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I have a lot to offer the right Dom. I am articulate, intelligent, attractive and fit. I am cultured, but not a snob. I am an experienced, heavy player.

I like festivals and live music, funky little out-of-the-way byobs and art films. I dislike malls, chain restaurants, or anything mainstream.

To me, this is a BDSM dating site, not a sex site. Do not message me unless you are interested in dating me. I want someone local to me who is available, emotionally and physically, for a steady, monogamous relationship.