Youre interested in the aspects of a ds relationship. You want to give yourself over and completely submit. Sexually, emotionally. You like the idea of being active in the moment without the shadow of consequence- you want to be pure and carnal.
I sit at the opposite end of the spectrum. I desire to control, command, cherish and cosset. I own the decisions and determine your path. Behave well and you will be rewarded. Act poorly and you will be punished.
