Wow, this website is better then I could of dreamed! A friend recommended that I come on here & see what happens, & I'm super excited to drive in. A few quick things...I married at 18 & now I'm 30 & divorced. It's hard to say whether I'm sad about the divorce or excited. Basically my ex was a real straight edge so I've never explored my sexual urges/preferences. At 18 I was clueless that people did anything other then basically missionary style sex! Lol. In my twenties I knew I needed something different, & I was constantly frustrated as all my suggestions were shot down & called "weird". Now I am free! Like a kid in a candy store. Last year I experimented A LOT! After a while I gravitated to a dominant role. Since I don't have everything all figured out yet, I'd appreciate advice, dominant role training, friends, & if the mood strikes me I might wanna come out & have some fun. I mean, if you were that lucky. Wink. Look forward to meeting some wonderful people.