I would love to meet a woman whose mind is a colourful abyss of creativity and whimsy and is the kind of person who would leave me simultaneously disturbed and intrigued. I'm looking for real-life play-partner connections (which have to be built on at least some chemistry) right now but are open to this developing into a more traditional (but not in the bedroom) long term relationship.

I'm a switch with a broad range of interests. I absolutely adore bondage, tying up a woman and seeing her struggle is extroardinarily erotic to me (and I enjoy being on the receiving end too). The common theme behind all my interests is power exchange and how this can be used to give and receive mind blowing experiences.

About vanilla me
- Music gives me mind orgasms
- My favourite book is Catch-22. I love dark humour
- Into fitness - running, cycling, climbing, weightlifting. We don't have bodies we *are* bodies so I had best keep myself in good shape
- I take excessive enjoyment from simple things: showers just less than scalding hot, the feeling of being pleasantly worn out after exercise, the anticipation just before I taste my coffee
- While living in Toronto, I was unofficially crowned "Most British sounding person" by a gaggle of Canadians

What I'm not looking for

- 24/7 lifestyle.

- Findom. Is this a real kink or just a way to fleece people?