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After several years of work and life getting the better of me, Im returning to CS under a new name to see whats changed. So ... hello! And thanks for reading.
Regardless of the venue, I think the need to connect with someone as a person, friend, and then trusted friend or (in that order) is the most important process of building meaningful relationships of any sort -- personal or professional.
About me It may be cliche to say, but Ill admit being a bit of a Renaissance man (though i avoid Ren Faires!) My interests in this world run far and wide, ranging from foreign affairs and finance to science, technology, and more. My career in a rather hot field (no, not a fireman!) occupies a large priority in my life -- yet underneath my dominant public professional role in this crazy town is a privately deviant person who gravitates strongly toward the submissive side while still appreciating the privileged opportunity to take the lead (pardon the pun!) at times to reciprocate and share the erotic experiences, both mental and physical. Perhaps you fall into a similar category?
I suspect some of my submissive kinky tendencies probably are the consequence of believing that chivalry isnt necessarily dead -- and that treating people with respect is not a sign of weakness but humanity. Looking back, I believe that kinky interests have allowed me to learn more about both myself and others while at the same time giving close friends an opportunity to carve out a private niche in their mindspace to let their professional shields down, relax, and be free - at least for a little while.
As I said, theres got to be a connection on some intellectual or emotional level first before anything else. For me, this can come from being fairly close in age, having unique life experiences, related professional backgrounds, interests, personalities, ambitions, etc. And perhaps from that, something indeed can click between us. (For those wondering, I think kinky interests are best discussed once people get to know each other, so I did not complete that part of the profile.)
But enough about me. On a more philosophical note ... while the entire body is there to work with, the brain truly is the most amazing sexual organ since it controls everything else -- and thus is the one most fun to play with! To me, the best friends andor kinky partners are those that are able to challenge both the mind and body in ways that lead to personal exploration and mutual growth. Indeed this, is part of what attracts me to deviant kinkdom with the right person.
Bottom line Im here for friends first, trusted friends second, and then see where the mutual interests andor experiences might go for us as friends, kinksters, or friendly kinksters. (Not interested in long-distance or online-only, sorry)
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