I have been in the BDSM lifestyle since 2008 in various roles.


No, I will not be the unicorn for a couple.


I prefer partners closer in age to myself, with a 5 to 10 year range on either side. Chemistry is most important with similar life goals.


I have a passion for music and dancing and I am looking for someone who enjoys the same. I enjoy brain teasers, logic puzzles, baking, cooking, the local public scene, and munches.


My goals include owning my first home, growing a home garden, raising chickens for eggs, creating a home and space open and inviting to others. I also am aiming for my home to be a hub for the local kink community to gather and have a space to hold events, lectures, and parties.


My wants include someone or someones who are polyamory oriented, domestically service leaning towards laundry and cleaning, able to hold a job outside of the home and dynamic, and wanting similar goals as I have listed above. I do not expect my partner to do EVERYTHING, nor would I want that for myself or anyone. I want a symbiotic relationship where each person is complimentary in personality, wants, needs, desires, and talents.


I would love to travel, but it is more enjoyable with a partner. I imagine one day taking an impromptu road trip across the country. I have my sights on visiting Scotland, Ireland, and New Zealand someday.


**I have an older profile under the name silverflower. It is outdated, but still contains many of my views and theories on BDSM and the lifestyle. It also chronicles some history of my journey into the rabbit-hole. Feel free to check it out.**