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Ive been interested in BDSM as a submissive for as long as I can remember, and most of my best friends throughout my life have been slightly older women, usually feministactivist types, and fairly adventurous. Ultimately, Im looking for a best friend and a partner to run off and enjoy life with, and I think I want to try a FLR. Im not entirely sure what that looks like, as a great deal depends on what She wants.

I think most of my desire for submissiveness in a relationship stems from wanting to see my partner happy, and I hate when they feel they cant say something or express their opinion for whatever reason. I guess I see an FLR as a way to even the playing field a bit. I also find it irresistibly attractive. I dont need or want a 247 bondage scene, but someone whos not afraid to express their needswantsopinionsgrievances, with a little Ds on top sounds amazing.

Im at a point in my life where Im counting down the months in my current location and havent decided on my next step. So anything is possible. Id love to chat, even if only to broaden my understanding of what folks are looking for in a FLR.


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12/17/2017 5:19:22 PM
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12/15/2017 7:48:10 PM
I have difficulty answering this, and i think I found a better way to explain it:
My main goal is to make Her happy, and so I'm not looking to act out the fetishes I enjoy. I strive to be a Real Sub (TM) and really love being a sub. 

What turns me on (what I'm looking for, in part) is the connection between a Domme and a sub as he surrenders to her will.

It happens as my knees begin to flex
and intensifies as they hit the floor.
I look up into Her eyes,
and a second wave overtakes me.
A third wave begins as She grasps me firmly
and I know I can no longer resist
Again and again, at Her command
Then She stops
Leaving me wanting and aching for Her
TallDarkCurious
 
 Age: 33
 Trenton, New Jersey