I am a positive happy man who has explored this lifestyle actively for 25 years now.
I need it and any other style of relationship is unfulfilling.
Vanilla-wise I enjoy any and all activities outdoors; am active (but prefer being active with a partner); make good money (six-figures), solidly employed and happily looking to retirement in two years, no kids, no debt, home paid off.
I also enjoy gardening, reading, music, cooking, fine dining out, red wines.
USMC Veteran.
I am not a couch potato.
BDSM wise I love sexual servility and servility as-is.
There's really not much I haven't tried and there is nothing I wouldn't do to fulfill fantasies (except gross illegalities and children: hard limits I am sure for all of us here)
I will be happy to send a suit and tie picture along with a casual picture if you feel you might like getting to know me.
LTR desired. Not a one-night stand....
Best to all,
J