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Im a spanking fetishist. I started fantasizing about spanking in the second grade, and it has remained a core part of my sexuality ever since. I love playing the naughty student, or the wayward young girl that needs to be punished. I can be very compliant or a bit sassy, depending on the demeanor of my playmate. I am a masochist to an extent - mostly when it comes to spanking. I have a very high pain tolerance and want to be spanked with anything and everything.

My kink interests dont stop at spanking by any means. When playing, I enjoy giving up control or having it consensually taken from me in a variety of ways.

My desire to be controlled...to be embarrassed...to have pain inflicted upon me - these only extend to play. While I would love find a romantic relationship with a kinky partner, I am not looking for power exchange outside of the bedroom to be part of the equation. I am not looking for a Dom.

Im a bottom-leaning switch and also have a toppy side that tends to present as a sadistic mommy domme.

Im highly educated and am unashamedly a nerd and am a former scientist. I also have a successful career that is very important to me and has taken a lot of hard work. Im interested in meeting partners who are impressed by what I have achieved, not threatened by it. Also, my career is the reason I dont post face pics, but I have no problem sharing them privately.

Im a bit geeky and like sci-fifantasy related things (Buffy was the best TV show ever made). I like to craft and am getting into knitting. Im teaching myself to play the piano. I love taking my dog on outdoor adventures. Our favorite spot is the beach in the middle of winter.

Im fat and sexy. Love it or dont waste my time.

What Im looking for

Right now, Im interested in meeting new potential play partners and potential romantic partners, especially fellow spankos. I am poly-friendly, but otherwise am not interested in playing with anyone coupled (no cheaters). I would ultimately like to find a LTR.