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A forenote

I have been out of the loop for a long time and while it would be wonderful to get back in, it will take me some time and rehabilitation.
I will take a while to get to know, often I am unwilling to share too much ination because of prior unpleasant experiences and also my current line of work requires my personal life to maintain high levels of privacy.
My ideals and tastes will make finding someone right for me very difficult and I know this well enough. But I am open to friendship and sometimes the spark of friendship can grow into something more.
While I try to re-find myself I will be returning to some older untouched habits and accessing the previous versions of my self to suit my profile name.
So hopefully there wont just be diary and journal entries of questionable or unpleasant subject matters, but a nice selection of more enjoyable words to read through over time.

Profile

I have never been a fan of Sadism and Masochism,
To me the lifestyle is quite a precious thing, to accept a womans submission is the greatest gift in life that could ever be given to a DominantMasterOwner (depending on the status you class as at the time with the person you are with). My opinion is rather fixed, though open to being changed with conversation as long as the argument opposing my mind is good enough to sway me.
The way I live the lifestyle is one I developed based on how I feel about it, learning what I could, when and where I was able. ing my own opinions, desires and tastes to suit my blend of the Dominant role. It is very important to be flexible, fluid, to be able to adapt, change and mold yourself to suit the submissive you are with while still being true to yourself. I also feel that communication is one of the major factors in any relationship, whether it is within a lifestyle relationship or not. If something is wrong, I expect to be talked to and try to work with the issue, fix it or adapt to it. Which in a worst case scenario the repair is to in fact end things amicably. I do not believe in Sadism or Masochism on a personal level, as stated before. While I do enjoy some sadistic activities, I am not one to go overboard. I enjoy giving some spanking, wax play, paddling, caning, slapping and other relatively light punishmentpain play. But I would never pierce, beat or go what I would consider too far as I do not enjoy causing pain.
Though, contrary to not being a Sadist in the terms of pain, I suppose you can argue that I am a sadist in the terms of pleasure. Which you can indeed use as a torture and enjoy the despair of a woman who is mercilessly teased. Which is my favourite thing to do. I love to tease, at home, in public, any time, anywhere. Not only physical teasing but emotional, including whispered words, texts, innuendos and mental stimulation of the imagination.
While it may be considered naive to some, I do believe you can make someone addicted to you and your touch, your manner, how they are treated by you. And I would find it a huge accomplishment if I drove a woman to such lengths that whenever she thought of me, heard my voice, saw me or even just heard my name, she would become aroused. In fact it is a goal I aspire to and if you do not try, then you can not achieve.
I am quite the inveterate pervert, with an obsession for kink, fetish and the taboo to varying degrees. I am indeed a fan of Manga and Anime, especially Ecchi, Hentai and the hilarious romantic comedies. I love Cosplay, more so the erotic and risque costumes, like Felicia from Darkstalkers and the Plugsuits from Evangelion that Rei and Asuka wear, as well as many more. I am also drawn toward the fur community and find anthromorphs surprisingly pleasing which pushes many of my tastes toward pet play and a desire to get involved in that side of the lifestyle.
I have written and likely will continue to write erotic stories, both with and without any signs of plot, I enjoy drawing, singing and often find myself lost in the music when I listen to the various genres I enjoy. I also happen to be an avid gamer across all the possible plats. Computer games ranging across PC, Xbox (360 and One), Playstation (3, 4, PSP and Vita), Nintendo (Wii, WiiU, 2DS and DS), board games, tabletop games, wargames (especially miniatures games that have greatsexy miniatures), card games (including collectable like YuGiOH, Magic The Gathering and Pokemon) and always interested in trying new ones. I also of course love Western comics and Graphic Novels as well.
While I have not gone into complete detail about myself, I hope this has given you an idea of who I am. So it would be great to hear from you and answer any questions that you might have.