I've been at this for a few years now. I've had a lot of good times, and quite a few not so good times.

I am an experienced dom. I have seen the best in people. I have also seen the worst in people. Thankfully the ones that have shown me the best, I can also call friends.

Like I have said, I have seen the worst. I have run into border line personality disorders, bi-polar, limerence, PTSD and probably a few others that I don't know about. These things can make things difficult and interesting. I have had people attempt suicide on me. I've had people threaten suicide on me. I've driven friends to the hospital late at night because they were worried that they might hurt themselves. I've seen drug abuse, I've seen spousal abuse. I've seen cutting and self harm. Not one of these was... fun.

All of these things have taken their toll on me. But it has led me to become a better dom and a better person. I now have the methods on how to deal with this sort of thing. I have rules which I try to live by. When I first became a dom, I never thought that dealing with someone who cuts was part of the equation. But here I am now knowing that's a real possibility.

Before I was looking for a long term type of relationship. I'm still open to that. But these past experiences don't make me so keen on the idea.

I am indeed looking for a slave or owned property. I do love a good power exchange. There in lies an issue. Due to my past, I now have very high standards in regards to a slave. I expect things like communication. I expect transparency, honesty and openness. I also expect that you are going to have the ability to negotiate your slavery. I take this stuff seriously, and I expect you to as well.

Also if you are new to the world of kink. Feel free to message me to ask for advice. Here is also a list of resources that you should read:

The reddit BDSM community has created a great FAQ:

http://www.reddit.com/r/bdsmfaq

Specifically if you are new, I think you have to read the article on abuse.

http://www.reddit.com/r/bdsmfaq/comments/wzgrn/abuse_and_bdsm/

Also if you are a reddit user, you should subscribe to this section.

http://www.reddit.com/r/BDSMcommunity/

Then spend many days just going through that and reading. You'll see some good advice. You'll also very likely see some sad stories. Note, you are not impervious to those bad things happening to you. Learn from others failures so that you don't make the same mistakes.

If you are serious. Want to explore. Then message me. I do not bite. I will also adjust how I dom based upon your experience level. I do not throw new people into the deep end.

Photos:

Here are some of my favourite toys that I've made.

1-2:  Spreader bars.  The first is made out of wood and the second out of steel.  The steel one is great to suspend multiple people.

3: Zappy paddle.  It was more of a joke.  But when the paddle hits you, it gives a slight shock.  Nothing too intense.

4: My baby.  My violet wand kit.  Including body contact probe.