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Wow, no warning that a minor change to profile results in your being put in que and you cant send or respond to messages. That surprised me. I hope it doesnt take too long ...a bit late to get a message after making change that it goes to que and the process is taking longer.

Note I travel for work so dont use my location as an instant no thanks .. instead perhaps we are compatiable and if I message you its because Im at least somewhat close. When the right situation comes along I will stop the rambling ways ... or have the person join me - whichever is best. So that anyone who messages me can hopefully see Im adding this and that will drop me back a bit further,





Like a lot of people I find writing about myself a bit awkward ... its just easier to talk and get to know someone. The few words we can put in a profile often have more power then anything else in our lives - I wonder if giving such power so early on is a good thing. However, everyone wants to know a little before deciding whether to talk at all it seems - here goesThe simple things in life mean a lot more then all the fancy and expensive ones ... I learned that the hard way - seems most important lessons are learned that way. I do enjoy a variety of activities both in BDSM and in vanilla life. I separate the two because like it or not there is a large part of society that doesnt want to know about the BDSM life. Not to mention the friends and family that would jump to stereo types.Honesty, loyalty, and friendship along with a healthy sensual life are the keys to a relationship ... at least from my vantage point. Sadly finding someone that can continue those - most start outthat way -is often another story. Im a bit cynical on that I know ... but at the same time I am trusting until its proven that I shouldnt be.I do want more then just online friends, but certainly willing to make those as well. I did find the interests selections a bit limiting and would suggest they are just a starting point in any discussions. There are very few hard and fast selections ... however hard limits are Pedo and scat. Love anal play, titnipple teasing-torture, clit teasing-torture .... note I refer to it as teasing-torture because I prefer it to be excruciatingly stimulating without it being just pain .... Im not into pain just to dish it out (meaning I wont just slap you around or something, rather pain comesalong at the right times during playand in the right ways... though of course in some areas of the lifestyle it does come along naturally quicker then others... I prefer to get to know someone and share our interests rather then relying on a web profile to determine our compatibility.I do respect limits, just dont be surprised if I push them when appropriate.

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1/18/2023 3:16:40 PM

Update: 

Location is now mid Atlantic (Maryland)

Not currently seeking long term though open to it should it present itself but not main focus

Will be relocating sometime in the next year just not sure when or where. 

Not updating profile due to the delays in approval. 


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sexysubmissivej
 
 Age: 26
 Sunbright, Tennessee