Collarspace

Local Dominant seeking submissive partner.

Dom for the past 7 years, only practicing in vanilla relationships.
Currently putting myself out there to seek a consentual beginning with a partner in the lifetsyle.

As a Dominant, i have the below intentions

Control - am a sickler to details and strong enforcement of compliance. (less demanding control, like respect, is earned through actions, care and trust)
Care - Despite being quite hard on the partner, it is imperative to understand the needs and concerns through open conversations prior to a proper control of the partner, subtle or otherwise.
Ownership - To take full responsibility of my actions or that of my partner in all affairs from schedules, house rules. My perception of a Ds relationship is not just for the bondage, kinky sex and torments.
Patience - receiving and giving as cliche as it is, no one is perfect. Absence of such only impedes growth and denies a safe setting.
Respect - As much as i demand respect, respect is given in equal proportion. The partnership will be built on trust, among other things.
Appreciation - receiving and giving appreciating and acknoweldging of the partner in knowing her place and seeking to please.

What i seek

Ability to con to a set regime.
Particular appeal in the below set code

pleasure in pain

comfort in distress

freedom in servitude

contentment in capitulation

assurance in exploitation

autonomy in restraints

Forthright in expressing needsdesiresissues without fear of consequence.
Accepting, honest, self-respecting, communicative.
Maintaininga standard of appearancehygienehealth.
Seek to satisfy her Dominant regardless of the enormity of task.

Inclination towardsbut not limited to a long-term partnership.
Physical traits are secondary and consideration is solely based on character and compatibility.

opinion The partnership is not based solely on bondage, pain and pushing limits. It is one of commitment and compliance from a submissive to her Dominant in addition to the affection and emotions that the relationship would encompass.

Photos are not of me but merely interests and beliefs i go by in any dynamic.

Will add on accordingly when there is a need to.