I am a professional who enjoys the outdoors, fine dining, quiet nights in and everything in between. I am easy going and a laid back person but also very firm in what I want and need in someone. I am seeking a relationship that is lasting. I want it to be a deep and meaningful relationship where we can look at each other from across the room at a party and know what the other is thinking.

Ive been involved in D/s for about 10 years and during that time I've discovered a few very important facts about myself. 1.) I need D/s in my life. Having just a normal vanilla relationship is not enough. I need that connection and feeling that only a D/s relationship can give. 2.) I am not looking just for fun, a play night, or sessions. Once you've discovered what a deep connection built on trust and respect can give you, you can never go back to just a fun one night "session". There is just no way to develop the kind of connection, trust, and respect necessary to explore it the way you truly desire in just a few sessions.

D/s for me is about more than just kink, bdsm, sex, and having fun. I don't turn my dominance on and off like a light switch when I leave the bedroom. But I'm also not someone who lives just in a fantasy world. The way I approach D/s is about creating a way for it to existing with my vanilla life in such a way that those around me have no idea its there, but for that special person whom I share it with its always foremost in view. I use it to enhance my life in all aspects whenever possible.

D/s is not just about control and submission, but rather about two people working together to achieve something neither could on their own. Each complements the other by filling in where they are weaker and using their own strengths to the advantage of both. Its based on a mutual trust and respect. I'm not looking for a dumb door mat robot. I'm looking for someone who is intelligent, with passion and drive. Someone whom I can guide and help grow. I look for a submissive who is submissive to their very core. Someone for whom they derive pleasure just from the act of pleasing and serving their Dom. Seeing me happy, and making me happy should inturn make my submissive even happier.

Submission is a gift, and truly a rare thing to find in someone. But to find that saime gift in someone whom also matches what I look for in a vanilla sense as well is ever more rare.

l'm not sure I'll find it here but please prove me wrong.