Collarspace

I was widowed nearly 5 years ago. It was a difficult experience and taught me a lot about myself and how to live life.

At present I am running a technology startup where I am the controlling partner. I have staff and consultants for the day to day so I still have a flexible schedule but at times my work life demand is high. I expect to get back to a more board of directors, 10 hour per week role with a year or so.

I try to spend at least a few months a year at the beach, working on extending my yoga practice and living a simpler life that I do in the United States.

I am looking for a long term partner, but that can entail a wide range of commitments. I believe everyone needs to pursue their professional passions and that can demand people be geographically separate at times. Real relationships transcend such things with honest effort. Friends interested in 1-2 week real life meet ups are welcome if there is a real possibility of a long term connection. Online or phone is only interesting in the context of exploring the boundaries of mutual arousal and consent.

If you are thinking of contacting me at this point, you really should. I welcome a girl who takes the first step, and find that it is more effective on these kinds of sites to engage with those who have an interest in me.

I have a few deal breakers

Obesity its just not my thing. Im not expecting a model but a basic level of fitness is required. That would be topping out around size 8, not a 2!

Committed Relationships If youre in one, work that out before looking for attention from me.

Veganism Life is too short to limit your experiences that strictly. I find arbitrary dietary restrictions to be a particularly boring variant of the over-privileged virtue signaling as a weak substitute for actually seeking virtue in your life.

Be Prepared to Verify Identity! I understand the need for privacy and security. But if we are communicating directly and I have shared pictures, and my real name and you havent confirmed for me that you are a human female, we have a problem. Trust is a 2 way street, and this site particularly is filled with catfish.