Collarspace

I believe the relationship between a submissive and a dominant should be an equal partnership. Even though there may be power exchange, that interaction should be part of a balanced connection. Many folks on here seem to require a level of obedience in early interactions, that it makes me wonder what their true motives are. I expect to build something real over time takes trust and openness, neither of which come easily. The structure of a domsub relationship can provide the mechanism through which trust is built, but submission cant replace a true connection. I dont mind having some fun in play sessions, but what I really seek is someone to share the adventure of life with.

I recognize the fluid nature of people, emotions and feelings, so I dont expect you to make promises about the future. I would much rather hear about the truth of the present. We can figure out the future together.

I havent participated in the lifestyle publicly, but I do enjoy sharing experiences with a small circle of trusted friends. I dont expect you to share a picture of yourself on your profile here, but I would ask that you post a picture that captures the spirit of what you are looking for.

All messages are welcome, but I will respond at my discretion and convenience. I look forward to chatting with those of you who know what you seek.