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I came back to this site looking for that ever elusive rare gem of a Domme/Top who is actually
Male Submissive, 40,  Arlington, Virginia











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 Submissive Male



 6' 0"

 190 lbs





Actively Seeking:

Dominant Female

Switch Women

Femdom Couples

I came back to this site looking for that ever elusive rare gem of a Domme/Top who is actually looking for a bottom to explore the world of kink with and take me under her boot to train. For me I enjoy the dynamics of the lifestyle and love the trust and bond that develops between Domme and sub through the power exchange. 


I hope to meet a Domme/Top who has the right balance between being strict, sensual, and sadistic, preferably someone who is looking to unleash her inner sadist on me.


For the record, I am very real. I'm 6', 190 lbs, single, no children, drug and disease free, and although I'm not a body builder I do run and go to the gym on a regular basis. On the kink spectrum I border between submissive and bottom but I'm no sissy or slave. I do tend to gravitate more towards the S and M aspect of kink than the D/s.  I've never been in this lifestyle for fantasy fulfillment but rather developing that bond between Domme/Top and sub and getting to share a part of myself that I don't get to share.  I also more than able to host as well. Only local Dommes/Tops or Dominant Switches in the DC area.


I prefer to connect on a personal level first over coffee or drinks in order to get to know someone before playing. I'd like to know I could trust someone before I give up control to her for a scene. I'm also always looking to make friends who share similar interests both vanilla and BDSM too. I love hiking and know the trails around the area like the back of my hand. I'd love to find a kink partner that would love me to share this with her.


If you're not willing to meet in-person just to talk over coffee or drinks and get to know one another, then please move along.  I fully understand the need for safety and security when meeting someone from this site which is why I choose to meet in public places where we both feel comfortable. I'm also only looking for real life encounters. I don't play online, frankly I don't understand doing kink online.  If you're not willing to take control and swing the flogger in real life than what's the purpose. 


If you're interested I'd be happy to share a pic with you.

Journal Entries:
7/16/2017 2:19:11 PM
Why is it every time I log into this site there is always another new "findom" on here.

9/30/2016 5:36:36 PM
Looks like the same old same old on this site since I've been gone.

9/23/2016 2:03:27 PM
Oh Boy!!! Aren't I a lucky sub. I haven't been back on here a day and already my mail box received 10 messages from fake Dommes trying to scam me.

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