Collarspace

UK male

Non Smoker

Sapiosexual Dom

NOTE I NOW HAVE A SUB SO NOT LOOKING TO MEET ,. HAPPY TO CHAT IF YOU SEE ME ONLINE.
What am I looking for? well in the first instance a chat to see if we are at the correct ends of the relative spectrum, but to give you some indication I am D to your s,practisedinbondage ,cp ,and humiliation, interactions with you would depend on your prefs and limits

The best way to determine compatibility in the first instance is by chatting to people on a 1 to 1 basis, and then taking it from there.

There is no point 2 people meeting up without some prior contact as the interests in this field are wide and varied but the categories that are attached to people are quite few.

People who chat using text language or who dis and dat instead of this and that really dont belong in my chat window.

OK soap box time,

Bullying has no place in this , gratuitous violence is ABUSE. agreed pain is a different matter and agreed and carefully applied pain is often the means to an end.

Doms should be looking to also give something to the subs that they are with,

That includes a responsability to keep subs safe, to play as agreed either to SSC or RACK or both.

It also includes aftercare , both during and at the end of a session but also in the later days when the sub may have dropped and needs some reassurances or other help.

Praise and encouragement are the life blood of many subs, its their reward, give praise where its due, be proud of this stron woman who has given you her submission, it was a gift , treat it as such.

Being a Dom in my view is not a one way street, both parties are looking for something, its up to the Dom to provide the circumstances which satisfy both.

Communication is the backbone of what we do , how could anyone expect to be in control of a situation that he knows nothing about , Talk to each other, before during and after. Agree limits, talk about what will happen, discuss options and the future plans.

I dont involve underage in any way.