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Male Dominant, 58,  Albuquerque , New Mexico


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StraightFemale Submissive
Age: 49, Height: 5ft 4in (163 cm)
Location: Albuq., New Mexico
Last on 1/8/14 at 7:54 AM
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BisexualFemale Submissive
Age: 60, Height: 5ft 7in (170 cm), Weight: 170 lbs.
Location: Albuquerque, New Mexico
Last on 4/20/18 at 2:34 AM
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StraightFemale Submissive
Age: 29, Height: 5ft 7in (170 cm)
Location: United Kingdom
Last on 4/19/18 at 6:39 PM










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 300 lbs




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Im spending a bit more time on CS lately so it is time to clean up the profile. Lets get the triggers out of the way now:

I have HSV2 ie genital herpes, I am poly, I am a sadist, I pun, I dont give a shit about grammar, punctuation or spelling as long as the meaning is relatively easy to infer.  But, I do find a robust vocabulary comes in handy from time to time.


I have a relationship and several play partners. I'm not "looking". I'm here for entertainment, to learn perspective, develope my knowledge and skills plus talking with like minded people. To wit: perverts.

As the profile here suggests, i am actively seeking only interesting friends and masochists but am open to the unplanned / unexpected.  Yes, the pictures on my profile are of my handy work.  I have deleted pictures of myself in the interests of safety.  I will share those privately.  If this is a problem, keep moving.


I love providing aftercare as much as i love extreme play. I take care of my toys. One of my play partners describes me as "Fun/Scary". I take my responsibilities seriously. I do want to hurt but i also want them coming back and (after a period of healing) healthy.

An important question i get asked is whether or not i smoke after sex. Not usually but i do keep a bucket of water nearby just in case.


I'm a moderate to heavy sadist. I also have Daddy inclinations if the subs personality is right. I enjoy dominating strong submissives. I find it amusing that there is an assumption among many subs that a daddy cant be a real sadist. Silly girls. That having been said i do adjust to whom i am playing with. I have never found a play partner that could take all that i could give out. Im told i have a heavy hand but apparently it is applied well. While not required, aftercare can be as good as the beating for me.


Yes, I do have experience and enjoy a generally favorable reputation in the local lifestyle community.


I prefer being in your head. Haunting you. Nurturing you. I garden and have cats. My workshop is my refuge and nature heals my soul. The Buddhists have a saying, "you can't step in the same river twice." So it is with me.


Humans are the only animal known to display friendship and pleasure by baring their teeth.


I am Not into little play, princesses, blood (but if it happens it happens) scat, twerking, sports or micro managing.


I am open to friendship with all people regardless of their kink if we can find common ground or interests. Want to get my attention in a positive way? Stimulate my intellect or curiosity. If you love things like astronomy, philosophy or cryptocurrencies lets talk! Likewise with woodworking, gardening and paleontology. You will see in my list of interests almost everything i have listed myself as a beginner. That is because i attempt to keep myself in beginner mind as much as possible. If you know what beginner mind is then we already have things to talk about.


I Might train. Might protect. Might mentor. If you are not sure of the difference, ask.  I also love to learn. You can find out more about me here: s:// Fair winds

Journal Entries:
1/3/2018 3:28:55 PM
One of the greatest secrets to happiness is the willingness to be happy combined with acceptance.

1/2/2018 3:13:36 PM
I often wish there was a "like" button here of profiles and journals. I enjoy reading through profiles and learning about others and myself but usually i have no plan or wish to go further. Yet i wish there was a simple way to send my appreciation without writing a message that will likely be interpreted as a come on or might even not be welcome for other reasons. Ce la vie

11/25/2017 12:44:47 PM
Weilding power is easy. We all do it but coming to grips with it and not just the fun aspects is what makes the kind of Dom i strive to be. I am learning to navigate the china shop without breaking anything. Not always easy. But sublime when i succeed.

11/19/2017 4:25:28 AM
Just because you dont have the same vulnerabilities that they do dont mean you are "stronger". You simply have avoided your vulnerabilities, while they play or live with theirs.

10/31/2017 1:31:15 PM
I wouldnt mind torturing someone right now.

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