An experienced "alpha" swm seeks a female that is on the submissive side and has some slave qualities and whom is open to learn and blend with me - yes sounds different but I like a healthy challenge and enjoy brains (street smart is good as well as educated) and beauty and someone that takes care of themselves or willing to work on that. I am an active and athletic person and yes besides this non-vanilla side I enjoy a vanilla side with my female partner.

I can go on and on but structure is great once we both have trust in each other and you are open for most. "The above sign is about finding a female partner where we both "ENHANCE" each other in this unique lifestyle.Yes I have played the DADDY role and enjoy it, as long as we blend. Yes the BDSM lifestyle is important but added to that I am very very sexual and open to enjoyment for each of us.

Also I am not posting a picture here for I have a public life here in SW Michigan and will gladly send a picture to you once we talk further.

I am open to your open to Michigan, NW Indiana, and Northern Illinois (including Chicago) residents or am open to your relocation.   I also go between here and Florida when the mood strikes me.

This is a unique blend that I am looking for - not a doormat in anyway but a female with a sub side that can be my slave when ordered to do so. Of course we will learn the ins and outs of each other and that's what makes this work. I welcome your reply and will not be calling you names (at least till I get to know you...LOL). But seriously I am a god catch looking for a good catch.