Lifelong submissive male I have had two really significant real life Mistresses. Their training came at two very different times in my life. The first was a true learning experience, one that I am very thankful for, no matter how it ended. It taught me a lot about myself and instilled a deep love for a particular fetish.Its important to note that it was my first experience in real life/and the real world and I was very young. It took more than 20 years to click with the next but it was very consuming and equally informative. Pretty much looking for someone who doesn't take themself super seriously.Someone who is confident in their power.Of course I believe that women are superior, wouldn't be here if I didn't. If you have that power you don't need to be told 100 times that you have it. I'm ok getting to know people .I do believe that you know it when you click with someone. As a service slave,the pleasure I get is in making you happy.i don't think it's an unfair desire to want you to be proud of me or genuinely be happy to own me.Right or wrong it drives me crazy when slaves and subs consider themselves losers,even though I know humiliation is a huge fetish.i think it's wrong to try to fit unrealistic expectations and fantasy to specific people...... Meaning I understand that you have a life and you may not wake up in a fetish outfit and have slaves catering to your every whim when the sun comes up.I am drawn to people who can laugh when something is funny.i know you are out there somewhere and I am sure we will get to know each other.Enjoy the search,meet some good people and enjoy life you only get one.