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UrdreamDom22
Hetero Male, 53, Boston, Massachusetts 
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UrdreamDom22

I am looking for a long-term, if not my final, relationsip.

I am a very dominant man in both public and private life. I'm an executive leader with high stress position, D/s is how I manage. I enjoy being with a woman who needs to explore and be pushed. I love to teach and mentor someone.

While I am looking for a real-life, real-time, live in person, I am open to an evolving online relationship with the hopes of in-person when the time comes. As you will read in my profile, I enjoy the mental aspects of D/s above all else.

A sensual, intelligent Dom, I adore the mental and emotional aspects of D/s above all else. Physically very powerful, mentally quick, often intense, generally kind. At my core I am a natural Dominant man, the one to whom, when there is chaos, fear, or need, people instinctively turn and seek from me protection, comfort, or a solution.

For me, D/s is a means to and end, and that end being a super-strong, intense, deep relationship with my partner. D/s is the core of how we relate to each other, how we communicate non-verbally. D/s is not ancillary or an accessory of a the sort of relationship I seek. In my sort of D/s interactions, we strip away the clutter of personality and become who we are at our core. This way, we can then bond together, our honest true selves laid bare for the other to embrace.

Not to say that real bondage, or discipline, or any other number of wonderful options do not have a place in my repertoire (evil smirk) they most certainly do! And a handful of hair is an wonderful means of control

If a meaningful, deep D/s based relationship is what you seek, contact me. Be warned, I will seek early verification of your indenity. GUYS, I'm just not worth the effort to try to troll or play.

 

3/18/2023 6:08:51 AM:   For those who ask me this is the sort of Domination I enjoy and practice. The Equalitarian Dom: Is one who controls by teaching, mentoring, and leading. This Dominant knows that when he finds a comparable submissive that things will happen as a natural progression of the interaction. Usually just a short learning phase is required to receive the correct response from the submissive. Both the Dom and the sub “get it”, there is very little need for so called “training” and they naturally know what the other needs and seeks. The Dominant does not like the situation of constantly repeating and forcing a particular behavior (submission) to occur. Besides the activities (sexual and others) it is the surrender as a result of the Domination that is the ive and enjoyment. Creativity is an important part of this situation. They tend to intellectualize and be more into the philosophical and psychological mechanisms of this life style. They understand the concepts and resultant interactions and can put it into real life. They do not need many rules like the Democratic type, nor do they like the heavy S&M activities of the Authoritarian, preferring submission to occur as a result of an instilled desire in the submissive to surrender. She “wants” to submit as a result of the Dominant’s knowledge and skill in dominating her. Sensuousness is the rule. Pain is given and received as a form of sensuous stimulation. Light pain as opposed to severe. Sensuous torture is a popular activity in this area. Both the Dominant and the submissive must naturally be this way. These are the people who will claim to be “born that way”. They fully understand the concept of D/s, it comes to them naturally and easily. They attract a submissive that truly and naturally desires to please and who will observe and sense what it is that the Dominant is communicating; and be able to translate that into the right thing to do. The “doing or saying without having to be told” type. The submissive begs easily and surrenders sweetly. They understand the concept of respect and surrender and can make it happen after initial learning with little or no additional instructions. They embrace the surrender gratefully and lovingly. These individuals usually form very intimate relationships. There is not much downside to these relationships, because they not only gr the concepts, but can make it happen as well, and their attraction is based on a strong mutual respect. Their strong relationship is not readily apparent to the unobservant, but they are always subtly in the 24/7 mode. The fact that these things come forth naturally and without the need for orders is a great source of pride, satisfaction, and loving. They are the opposite side of the coin from the Authoritarian. Whose pride, satisfaction, and love come from strictness and forbearance.    

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