Why does everyone think I'm joking about fly fishing? I'm on the water more than 30 days a year. When I'm not on the water, I'm tying flies (or teaching it to others.) It only seems natural to seek a like-minded partner so we can share a power exchange dynamic AND our love of the outdoors. That said, my succinct profile seems to still be a problem for many fellows here.
First messages are viewed as a test of the author's respect, mettle and attention to detail. When I receive a "seeking" message ignoring what I seek, it highlights a few key things. First, the author is hyperfocused on their selfish needs rather than recognizing my desires or any congruence between us. Second, I instantly question the intelligence of someone who can't read and comprehend brief, clear profile instructions. Third, I want nothing to do with a man who cannot trouble himself to respect my time (or his own for that matter.) |