This site has become such a cesspool! Every time I take a break and come back it seems to be even worse. On top of the fact that you can't even update your profile without waiting months in approval limbo, I've never seen more catfish in all my life. I would probably be completely done with the site if it wasn't the place I found my sub and now wife about 8 years ago. Hopelessly optimistic?! Please be real and genuine if you message or reply. I don't think it's too much to ask