Collarspace

It is what I am, not something I do or have to act out. It is part of my DNA.

In control, in charge. Like most in authority, it is best when that authority is so in charge that it doesnt have to be a constant threat. I like, want, and need our life-style. I will respect you and the need you have to be submissive. You will respect that I need to be in control. Yet, I want a full and fun vanilla life too. I hope that makes sense to you. A friend, lover, playmate who knows that I have to be who I am, she knows what she has to be and wants that. My sub feels protected, cared for, and safe via giving herself to me. I have recently decided that Id like a slave this time. My life has become to where I can give a slave the attention and care she needs.

There is lots more to us, so we will write for a while. And those emails and such will be long, for the mental part is of important to me, and should be to you. The mind is where it all starts and resides. The physical is important for it is a gateway to the mind. You know why you are being punished? is an important question. Yet, at times the physical is just to give the mind some fun for us both.

I am in shape, DD free (although I hope you become addictive), healthy, and OK with money - not that I own a jet and such, but I canwill pay our way.

Lets write. Full photo and more info when we have established contact.