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I wish I didnt have to put this at the top of my profile (it would be lovely if men who purport to be submissive and respectful acted as if they were, but apparently they do not). Let me be clear... One liners are rude. If a Domme has taken the time to write a thoughtful and detailed profile, she deserves a similarly thoughtful introduction. Since I believe a first contact is a place to put ones best foot forward, if a one-liner is truly how you choose to represent yourself, then we are not likely suited and you should not expect a response from me. Do not feel that you need to send a note asking permission to write to me. If you feel you fit what I describe in my profile, just write a note of introduction. All respectful emails that are reasonable given what I have written in my profile, will receive a response.

My profile

Lifestyle Dominant Jewish woman (been Dominant all my life, since before I had words for it really) currently in Boston, seeking a jewish male sub (50-60), ideally in metro Boston or metro NYC. Those in other locations may be considered as well, if they fit all other qualifications outlined in my profile and can speak intelligently about how they would manage the distance between us. I dont post a picture because I am very private, but for those who care I am slender and petite. I will happily provide a photo very quickly once a dialog has been established.I seek 247 submission on a psychological level and physical submission at my whim ) Of course, that is something that is built gradually over time in a relationship, once trust has been established. Mine is a loving, nurturing Domination. I am not a sadist, but am very strict. That is, I dont believe in pain for the sake of pain alone, but I do believe in discipline and training, and there is certainly pain inherent in that. I am a firm believer in the value of domestic discipline, principally otk spanking (usually hand or hairbrush) and corner time. Im not really into anything extreme. My sub is my treasure and I want to make sure he is well taken care of. I am very sensual and enjoy many kinds of play ) But, while kink is lovely, it is just that - play. It is not what s the foundation of a strong Ds relationship. That comes through the strength of the power exchange that both people desire. I am very private and monogamous. I do not engage in groups or public play, and insist on a completely vanilla exterior. My sub is mine. I choose not to share him and prefer that his attentions and adoration be centered on me.I am seeking a man who is truly a pleaser.... someone who finds that he derives much of his own fulfillment from pleasing his Domme, and from giving over control to her. I am not interested in some kind of mindless slave, but rather someone who is a person in his own right. He should have a mind and a sense of humor, and should not be afraid to use them at the appropriate times. I am looking for someone who will flourish under my guidance, not who seeks to lose himself in me. He needs to be able to be everything that I need and want him to be, including my best friend, my lover, my houseboy, my personal servant, my sexual slave and more. Ideally, I would like to be with someone who is Jewish, but would consider someone who has had significant prior exposure to Judaism and, perhaps even more importantly, Jewish culture. Having at least this basic level of understanding and experience is an extremely important and it is very unlikely that I will be convinced to abandon it.If you are married, or attached in any way, please do not respond (unless you are actively on the path to becoming unattached). If you are not in the age range or locations that I prefer, please do not write to me unless you can clearly articulate why your situation deserves special consideration and have a plan for how you will manage the distance between us.

I am not looking for casual interactions, or for play sessions, but rather for my lifemate, with whom I hope to explore the ins and outs of Ds as well as the vanilla world for the rest of our lives.......