3/28/2022 10:21:50 AM: Just an update now that journals seem to be working again. I now reside in beautiful sunny Napes Florida.  No matter how many times I update my profile it still say I.m 1100 miles away!

3/25/2018 7:53:45 AM: Aaaaarrrrg!!! This has been the worst winter! Since January 1st I’ve now lost power 7 times, sometimes for days, been flooded with 4 ft of water in basement 4 times, replaced washer / dryer twice, been mandatory evacuated twice and much more

9/9/2017 11:18:23 AM: I have to post this because it is so me: A Modern Gentleman's 30 Rules 1. Be gentle to the fairer sex, it's in the name. 2. Dress well no matter the occasion. 3. Pride is dangerous, be careful. 4. Be humble, be grateful 5. Opening the door or giving up a seat for a lady isn't up for discussion. 6. Work hard, that is if you want to own anything worth having 7. Starting / instigating a fight is for school boys, but men obtain the power to end one. 8. Ignorance isn't bliss, knowledge is power. 9. Suit up (make sure they're tailored to fit) 10. Confidence is a gentleman's trademark. 11. Comfort zones are for the weak, men aren't weak. 12. Foul language is for the less educated. 13. Make eye contact and mean business. 14. Lower your standards for no one. 15. Being romantic doesn't make you a woman. 16. Stay groomed. 17. Admit when you're wrong 18. Always make the first move, you're the MAN 19. Handwritten 'Thank you' cards aren't outdated. Use them. 20. Chivalry is not dead, there are just too many boys. 21. It is said you can tell a lot about a man through his handshake, so make it strong and firm. 22. Leave her breathless 23. Judge no one, just improve yourself. 24. Speak your mind, don't hesitate. 25. Offer your arm to a lady while walking, they'll feel secure. 26. You're the man, you pay. 27. Women love compliments, gentlemen provide them. 28. Never wear your hat indoors, it's disrespectful. 29. Make sure everyone has their plate before you start eating. 30. We don't always have to be the center of attention, but we are always noticed. It is our signature as gentlemen to come, make a statement, leave, and be remembered.

7/30/2017 5:42:45 PM: Here is a good definition i found that speaks well of being a submissive. i hope You like it as well. Submission is not about suffering. Submission is about service. Submission is not about humiliation. Submission is about humility. Submission is not about pain. ..... Submission is about being present. Submission is not about being used. Submission is about being of use. Submission is not about control. Submission is about letting go. Submission is not about what is done to you. Submission is about what you do for others. Submission is not about abuse. Submission is about acceptance. Submission is not about proving anything. Submission is about being real. Submission is not about contempt. Submission is about respect. Submission is not about how you look. Submission is about how much you care. Submission is not about denying yourself. Submission is about being open. Submission is not about bondage. Submission is about freeing your spirit. Submission is not about punishment. Submission is about discipline. Submission is not about being unable to escape. Submission is about being committed. Submission is not about submission. Submission is about obedience. Submission is not about fear. Submission is about trust. Submission is not about sex. Submission is about love. Submission is not about pleasure. Submission is about happiness. Obedient: Simply to obey without question. When love and trust are established, i am to put my life in the hands of my Mistress. I seek instructions and to be educated in the ways in which Mistress desires and pleases her. I don’t ask why, I simply do as instructed. I trust my Mistress will look out for my safety and wellbeing. Domination: This can mean many things. As you mentioned as i submit and obey, You will obviously come to Dominate me. Here are some thoughts on what i feel is a good Mistress. You can see i like lists. A Mistress that will cherish and care for me, trying my best to never take me for granted. A Mistress that will encourage me in all things, and strengthen me when I feel weak. A Mistress that will serve me by allowing me to serve Her, as this is what i crave to do. A Mistress that will use me and enjoy me in every way You desire, but will not take advantage of me beyond my limits. A Mistress that will explore with me in every way -- my body, my mind and my soul. A Mistress that will me and protect me as best She can, even from myself when needed. A Mistress that will respect me, my limits, my thoughts and my dreams. A Mistress that will strive to make my dreams a reality and support me in every way that She can. A Mistress that will discipline me when needed to help me become the better me that i want to be. A Mistress that will inflict pain from time to time, but mainly for pleasure, and never to harm me. A Mistress that will work to build me up, and never tear me down for no reason. A Mistress that will be honest with me, even when the truth is ugly. A Mistress that it is honor to be Your submissive A Mistress whose primary responsibility with me is to help make me better than when I first met You. A Mistress who chooses me because i’m not weak, but because i’m strong for You. A Mistress who chooses me not because i am frail, but because i am beautiful to You, inside and out, and You want to increase my beauty. That You choose me not because i am broken, but because i am smart and intelligent, and You want to help expand my thoughts and my knowledge to Your desires. A Mistress that will strive to make me all that i need to be, all that You want me to be, and all that i can be. I will celebrate who you are with each step along the way. Do i know the meaning of these words and are ready to submit to me totally with full obedience to You? The answer is yes once the trust and relationship are established, without hesitation.

1/26/2017 9:12:15 AM: Update: my apologies if I don't respond to messages in a timely manner or if I do, sound incoherent, my cold has developed into the full blown flu - antibiotics and cough syrup with codeine and more. I hate being sick :-(