Yes, this profile is on the longer side; if you can’t be bothered to read it (and we’ll know if you haven’t) it’s a sure sign that you’re not what we’re seeking.
We’re J&C; we’re a highly stable (drama free for two decades) couple whose relationship was designed from the outset to incorporate others in the context of relationships predicated on power exchange. We’ve had some success in this regard over the years (including via collarme, as might be inferred from our profile name), acquiring assorted friends and partners over the years that now form a sort of geographically scattered network that extends beyond North America. We’ve returned seeking something fairly specific; while past experience suggests there’s all manner of worthwhile people to be found here we trust you’ll appreciate that we have our reasons for restricting our search.
In the vanilla world we’re financially fortunate and can choose how we spend our time. We’re both highly active polymaths possessing multiple advanced degrees; we have a ridiculous number of projects on the table at any given time, would rather be outdoors than in and prefer exploring, learning, inventing and creating to sitting around in front of a television. We make our primary residence on our ranch in the mountains of Northeastern California but have cause to frequent Reno, the San Francisco bay area, Phoenix and Austin on a fairly regular basis; it would be fairly easy to come up with an excuse to regularly visit SoCal or the UK as well.
In the less-than-vanilla world we’re both exceedingly capable dominants with decades of experience. We believe that the assumption of control implies the assumption of responsibility, which results in us being quite exacting and yet not being stereotypical beaters or screamers – it proven far more effective to provide reward for appropriate behavior, creative corrections when necessary and to provide whatever training is required to see that a submissive is capable of meeting our specific needs.
As noted above, we’re seeking something quite specific: a service-oriented bi female, bi male, a m/f or f/f couple (you may identify as any combination of submissive, slave or switch); for reasons we are willing to elaborate in subsequent correspondence we have a strong bias toward established couples. By “service oriented” we mean precisely that, individuals who are willing to provide service across a wide swath of life; while sexual objectification and use is quite likely an eventual component of service it in this case it’s decidedly a small component. While it’s obviously easier to incorporate people whose existing interests and skills are aligned with our interests and needs we’re quite prepared to provide appropriate training to the right candidates, which means there’s a significant opportunity to gain new (and perhaps somewhat uncommon) skills. While our existing relationship structures demonstrate that we do not consider the quality of a relationship to be a function of geographic proximity the positions that we’re hoping to fill do require that relocation be at least theoretically possible in due time.
You are probably not a good fit with our needs if:
- You are allergic to cats, dogs or children.
- You think “service” means sitting around doing nothing while waiting for a little mildly kinky sex.
- The thought of breaking a sweat disturbs you
- You require television in order to survive
- You have issues keeping commitments.
We are in no particular hurry to fill these positions; we prefer to negotiate initial terms of service prior to introducing sex or kink into the mix and will require multiple trials before a contract is extended; unless otherwise negotiated we expect to fully keep those in our service during the term of their contract and to mutual negotiate contract renewal as necessary.