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FIrst off, despite the fact that I am on this site, I am a vanilla person. I mean I have my fetishes and turn-ons, such as plus-sized women who are chesty with large areolas, and have really cute feet, but Im not into the BDSM thing, nor am I into anything besides a woman and myself engaging in sex with each other. Threesomes, foursomes, orgies, gangbangs, all that stuff is cool for other people but its not my bag. Why am I on here, then? Well, I prefer it to watching professional porn with airbrushed and plastic actors doing ed and contrived perances. Its eshing to see real people with blemishes and a few extra pounds on them. Thats the real world. Thats whats up. Thats whats genuine.
I am looking for a committed partner, but this allows me some titillation until then. I really am a hopeless romantic and want to find The One(tm) ultimately and be monogamous. When Im single and not involved with anyone, I have been known to have sexual escapades, and casual sex can be better than no sex, but its not my preference. I crave not only physical but emotional intimacy with someone. Pillow talk. Cuddling. Kisses. Caresses. Sharing hopes and dreams, fears and worries. What I truly seek in my heart of hearts is a woman who will cherish me (as I will her) and be my best friend and companion as well as my lover (because yes, I do have a high libido and love sex). Doesnt anyone go for good old-fashioned romance and commitment anymore? sigh
Casual sex certainly scratches an itch, but it is ultimately unfulfilling and leaves me empty and feeling guilty. It is pleasurable the moment it occurs, but beyond that, its not building towards anything, or enhancing anything. It is ultimately a dead-end. I have soul-searched and I want the entire relationship experience with the right person. That being said, whilst I look for my mate, I will play on occasion. )
I have a long list of fetishes below. However, those are all things I want to explore with one woman. I dont judge anyone who is polyamorous, or swings, or whatever. I live and let live. Its just that my natural inclination is to be a one-woman kind of man. It is where I feel at home and am happiest.
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