Very dominant professional with 36+ years in the lifestyle.

I am strict and can be demanding, but fair. Have been described as evil, lol.
I just expect the most out of a girl and wont settle for less.
Any woman can be a sub, it takes true strength to be a slave, especially MY slave.

I don't see BDSM as kink, I see it as the foundation of a relationship, TPE.

What I seek seems rare.... total honesty, obedience, loyalty and devotion with good communication thrown in. I seek someone fit (or working hard on it), attractive (in my eyes), with a knowledge and true desire to be owned and controlled with out question. She will be molded to my desires in how she acts, speaks, looks and dresses. She must have domestic qualities and be service orientated. I seek one that I should never have to punish. NO brats or sams.

I am dominant, I didn't "become", just am, always was and always will be. I haven't a submissive bone in my body.

In the end all I can offer someone is that I am who and what I am, what I stand for and believe in and that never will change. I am very emotionally stable, may get bugged or upset, but never angry. Anger shows youre out of control, and I am never that way.

My word means everything to me, I have ethics and standards that I live by.
I say what I mean and mean exactly what I say. I am brutally honest.

NEVER confuse my kindness with weakness.
I rarely ever give second chances. Screw up on purpose, youre done. To me omission is the same as lying.

I am a non smoker, non drinker, never used drugs, in the gym 6 days a week. Health and exercise are paramount to me.

I am a self employed professional, VERY intelligent and creative, goal orientated and have ambition, though I am not nearly as organized as I need to be due to trying to accomplish too much at one time. Natural leader, great at making decisions.

I do not cook, at all, but love good home cooked food.

I do not spoil or give gifts, nor feel submission is a gift. Its who you are, just like I am dominant. A girl should prove her worth and earn her keep.

Never been married, no kids. I feel a woman should be owned not married, as it gives them legal rights property should never have. I have owned slaves long term and know the reality vs. online fantasy of owning and caring for another life.

I am not into any form of religion at all. I do believe in a higher something, just not sure what it is. Religion is just man made nonsense to control the sheep and weak minded.

I do not believe in "scening". To me thats no different than someone having a one night stand in the 'nilla world. I dont play around with anyone who I am not involved with in some manner, and then its not scening, but part of their training or similar.

Respect is an earned quality, courtesy should be always present.
If one takes the time to write, the other should show courtesy and reply if they have any manners (which is rare these days).
A simple no thank you, good luck, or lets chat is the least one should do. But of course, many here know nothing of this lifestyle much less manners or respect.

Great quotes:
"If you haven't tried these things, you should; these things are fun and fun is good."-- Dr. Seuss

BDSM is strength and suffering, beauty and savagery, freedom and chains, all at the same time.

I do own a female cuckquean slave. For those who dont know, a cuckquean is a female is humiliated by and who loves/craves/desires her Master/Owner to be with, own, have or enjoy other females at his discretion.

This clarifies how I feel and may inform those who dont understand, IMHO at least.

The Master is a higher gradient of control in B&D. The Master follows the same rules as a Dom, but in a stricter sense. The Master considers the slave a possession, but a highly valuable and loved one, the most valuable thing he owns. Offenses against the rules laid out by the Master are dealt with more severely, in most circumstances. Still, the Master, when pleased, flows great love and caring to his slave. The Master is also more protective of his slave because the slave is totally dependent on the Master. Owning a slave is the greatest reward and takes on a great deal of responsibility for her care and well being.

The Dom
Many inexperienced Doms (and Master too) believe that all that is required is simply ordering your sub around as you choose. It's not. There's much more to be said about what being a good Dom requires. Domination is not just giving orders. A good Dom will find a way to cause the sub to desire pleasing the Dom. A Dom, is the protector, teacher, and lover to the sub.

As the protector, the Dom must be a) stronger than the sub, and b) stronger than other males in the life of the sub. This does not mean that he has to be physically bigger or stronger. We are talking about character and personality.

As the teacher, the Dom must be wise and, above all, right. The Dom should not arbitrarily punish the sub on a whim. There must be a reason. To do otherwise will break down the trust and security of the sub. The Dom has to be respected by the sub. Respect is a quality that is earned by the Dom being right, and issuing swift, correct justice and reward to the sub. The Dom is not there to just inflict pain and degradation on the sub, but to give the sub a goal and a direction on how to love and please him.

As the lover, the Dom is loving and, when appropriate, stern. He must recognize that he is the only source of pleasure for the sub. He must see to it that this area is not neglected. The Dom should, when appropriate, be gentle, supportive, and tender to the sub. A Dom/sub relationship is not just about overpowering. It is about the Dom caring for the well-being of the sub. If punishment is required to stop a destructive action by the sub, then it comes from the Dom. On the other hand, when correct action has been noted by the Dom, love and caring should come from him to the sub.

The slave.
The slave is a higher gradient of submissiveness in B&D. A slave's primary purpose in life is to serve the needs and desires of the Master. The slave relinquishes all control to the Master, because the slave knows the Master has her well-being totally at heart. The Master/slave relationship tends to be more of a lifetime commitment to each other than a typical Dom/sub relationship. The slave is held to a higher standard of conduct and compliance than a typical sub, due to the fact that the slave has given control of her life to the Master. This is the ultimate in TPE and only the strongest of women can achieve this level.