9/25/2017 10:00:28 PM: I have had the pleasure of complimenting a woman on here,her answer was not a gracious thank you, no it was to tell me I was being too familiar with the words I used, i didnt offer anything beyond a compliment. tell me I am confused, as a man am I not supposed to notice beauty< as a Dom should a sub vilify me for my wording??

7/23/2017 9:05:53 AM: I tend to contact submissives that state they want real time or a long term situation. This is a reasonable way of conducting a search for a compatible person. Strangely enough 95% of the sub's that have they themselves say they need a LTR, don't respond and block me for I guess my stupidity in actually reading their profile and thinking they telling the truth. I will not say these subs are as everyone tends to yell FAKE, FAKE,but instead have very poor manners and are more commitment phobic then I am.(and that is saying a lot)

10/9/2015 2:03:27 PM: I have just been told  that iam delusional for offering  the idea of marriage,  basically since I hadnt elaborated on what I actually mean.  to paraphrase the I am delusional since I  do npot show how  I would be contributing to the relationship.  my understanding is simple,  the idea of collaring and caring for a sub or a slave is simple. I as a Dom offer the collar as a symbol of my intent to care for and protect my submissive partner. The submissive accepts and wears my collar as a symbol of  my having earned  the trust etc.  needed for  relationship to  for both fulfilling and strong. If Iam wrong someone please tell me, since my statement about the wedding ring being earned like a collar was the point of contention in  the message. I  offer marriage simply  to assure that my sub partner will be respected and well provided for after my death.  I hope this makes  my  words easier to understand . I mean since the basic idea offered in  profile is simple premise,  all will note I make a point of not  offering much in way of  interests etc,  the dynamic is built between Dom and sub isnt always for the world to know,   the following is the  message I received...'''What makes it ridiculous is the idea that what you have is unilaterally worth earning, while you make no apparent effort to earn the marriage yourself--or the respect and trust of your theoretical future wife. You've given your audience absolutely no reason at all to think you ate dome grand prize worth striving for in the first place, especially if you yourself are going to make no effort. It's breathtakingly delusional, this expectation you've formed.'''   My expectations seem obvious to me.

9/13/2015 4:00:47 PM: wow. so far  my  answers have been great  in the ide a of long term relationship, but the  few that misunderstand  the point of the  profile are vicious in response to the word wife and marriage, and even the idea that I suggest earning marriage like one would a collar.   none have a problem with EARNING A COLLAR, A LESS SUBSTANSIVE  IDEA .  the point of the wording is simple. I WILL  NOT JUMP INTO A MARRIAGE LIKE SOME ON HERE JUMP INTO THE IDEA OF WEARING A COLLAR, SO YES IN A WAY YOU WILL EARN THE MARRIAGE PROPOSAL JUST LIKE IN VANILLA, YOU WORK AT AND CONVINCE IS RIGHT( AND IF THAT DOESNT  QUALIFY FOR THE PHRASE EARNING THE POSITION,  WHAT THE HELL DOES??)B