Im looking for a Ds relationship within the real world. You should be open to, if not ready for something long term. You should worry less about what we do and more about why we do this. You should focus on service, devotion, honesty and selflessness. And you should not confuse fantasy with real life. What do I mean by that? We live in a vanilla world. While behind closed doors or among kink friendly people you can be in a thick leather collar, carry on nude and be fully ified, dont expect to be led around on a leash at the mall.