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Hi I'm an educated (postgraduate) and intelligent man who loves power. I'm after a submissive female play partner or submissive couple. A woman in a vanilla relationship or a single woman who wants exclusivity would be ideal. If you are the type of woman who wants to play with several men then you would not be for me. The couple could be a cuckold couple where the female sub needs sexual use and the male sub needs cocksucking training and to eat creampies. Or the male could be straight but absent. I am happy to chat initially and then to explore areas, such as pain or humiliation or sexual use or anything else she/they are interested in. I am not interested in drugs, needles, children, animals, scat or extreme pain. It would be great if she/they loved both receiving and giving oral.
As I have a vanilla partner, I do not want or offer a live-in or 24/7 relationship. However, regular meets would be possible depending on your location. I am clean, courteous and discreet.
I live in Cheshire; when my current location shows somewhere different, this is the general area where I am working during the week and can meet/host. I have Kik (this site is too slow and unreliable!) and can send a face pic if I feel there is a match. Phil PS If you do not live in the United Kingdom I would only be interested in chatting.

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4/19/2018 3:11:53 AM

It is interesting that there are so many female profiles on here that express the same desires.

There are, for example, many women who describe themselves as being shy or awkward or conservative who nevertheless wish to be used sexually or to be turned into a slut.

Are these desires because that is who these women genuinely are? That these people have suppressed their true selves for decades? Their genuine need?

Or are they desires because they reflect what these people can never be? A mother in her 40s or 50s has much less social access to men than a women in her 20s for example. Plus she has less time to cultivate and maintain any kind of sexual relationship.

I think that perhaps it is a mixture of both here. Women love the fantasy of being sexually overpowered by a confident and dominant man. Plus, on some level, many women have, and crave, slut fantasies but they have been socially conditioned to be the 'good girl'; the girl who sits on a train with her knees together.

Society still insists that women should be the focus of male desire rather than accepting that all people have a sex drive and that desire is not just the preserve of men. Sexual desire by women, whether it is for men or women or both, is real and is to be applauded and accepted. Women who wish (or fantasise about) being a slut or being used sexually are to be welcomed as having a normal sex drive and they should be listened to on here.

 


1/30/2018 1:47:37 AM
I like chatting to young subs especially, as I think any girl under say 25 or so does need guidance on BDSM.

This can mean so many things to so mnay different people and who is to say what is 'right'?

There IS no right! What feels acceptable for one may not feel acceptable for another. Some people love pain; others do not. Some crave to be used as sluts; others do not.

So I would advise anyone not to get hung up on what is the right thing to do or to like. If your idea of being a submissive does not involve pain and bondage, who is to say that this is not submission?

Submission and dominance are intellectual processes by definition. The yearning to submit is submitting one's mind; the body follows.

So whilst no one is an expert on human psychology or on every single ect of BDSM, I am always happy to chat to people to understand their needs.

1/25/2018 9:50:10 AM
Very happy to do 'virgin to slut' training for young women, but you must have proof that you are at least 18 years old.

1/9/2018 1:24:40 AM
No location = fail. Vague location eg 'south' = fail. Unspecific requirements = fail. Message deleted unread = fail. Profile with no journal entries is a possible fake = fail. Profiles featuring girls who look 13 = fail. Profiles saying she wants to be kidnapped, raped or murdered = fail. Profiles with URLs to virus infected sites = fail.

1/3/2018 2:30:26 AM
The chat request on here never works for me. If you want online chat, I have Kik or Skype.

11/26/2017 3:43:21 AM
Why do people initiate a conversation and then log off halfway through? It is selfish and rude. No one would do this face to face. No one would chat to someone at a party and then, mid sentence, turnaround and walk off. So why do it on here?

11/22/2017 4:52:59 AM
Very open to watching a lesbian sub be used by her domme or mistress. This could be pure voyeurism, with no interaction from me. Also, if a female sub desires bareback intercourse, this would be possible if she takes an STI test. I understand how sperm in a vagina shames many women.

11/6/2017 11:49:56 PM
Would-be friends/subs/applicants/chatting buddies: No county/city/town location on your profile? No face picture on your profile and not one not sent with your introductory message? A blank profile or one that tells me nothing about you and your desires? You talking of money in any way? THEN GO AWAY. Thanks :)

9/29/2017 6:30:37 AM
Any submissive women want to have regular spanking sessions in Manchester?

I work there so lunchtimes, so spanks would be very easy . . .

9/10/2017 2:39:13 AM
I am very happy seeing subs who want no sexual contact, eg spanking, humiliation, bondage etc. Hopefully this will reassure young women and newbies, as I know that they can feel intimidated or scared about approaching someone. Domination and submission is, of course, primarily about the mental power exchange through loss of control and obedience etc. This can and does often result in a physical manifestation, but this is not necessarily sexual. Im always happy to chat to genuine subs about their interests.

8/18/2017 1:58:55 AM
Am I the only person who uses CS and then spots that all the menus bizarrely flick into German ones?

It doesn't happy very often and there seems to be no pattern.

How very odd . . .



7/29/2017 3:31:23 AM
Why do people chat with flirty banter and then block you? If you dont like the way the conversation is going, just say so. Blocking at the earliest opportunity is the sign of the weak minded. I am not surprised that so many single women on here stay single.

7/28/2017 2:25:00 AM
If you message me, please tell me your location. Stating 'the midlands', for example, is not useful because people from the south of England might think that the midlands could be Birmingham, whereas people in Scotland might consider the midlands as being somewhere around Newcastle. The term 'the midlands' is also vary vague, as to me it stretches from Shrewsbury in the west to Leicester in the east. I dont want to know your postcode, but surely telling me your nearest town is not too difficult?

7/1/2017 6:21:28 AM
Cuckold couple wanted. He would perform fluffing and cleanup duties. She would enjoy natural vaginal intercourse with me. He could be trained to suck and swallow. Longterm and exclusive preferred.

6/14/2017 1:23:23 PM
I need a sub for regular spankings and pussy inspections. The power of humiliation and the mental anxiety.

5/28/2017 3:40:06 AM
Power is interesting. Especially the dynamic of control. Making straight men suck cock is power. Making straight women lick pussy is power. But there are also many other interesting variations. Older men fucking young girls is an obvious one, especially if she is say 18-25 and he is 50 plus. Young boys being sodomised by the strapon or real cock is another. Imagine a heterosexual boy of 18 being tied up and anally fucked? Perhaps by a group of gay men or women with strapons? What about two gay males being forced to kiss a vagina? To worship it. Or to be tied up and a woman riding their cocks until they spurt? Or what about two lesbians being vaginally fucked by a man? How much power is demonstrated by their pussies dripping cum? A wife being fucked by other men. Or a husband being fucked by other women. Or unprotected vaginal intercourse when a wife is not on the pill? These are all examples of power and sex of course. But power and sex seems to me to be the ultimate form of power. Comments welcome.

5/27/2017 11:47:57 PM
Quite a lot of submissive men contact me and compliment me on my photos. They like the images of fellatio and are aroused by them. I have never trained a sub male, but I do enjoy fellatio, so training a man to please me would not be difficult. I also love the idea of a cuckold couple, where she wants him to suck cock, either because he needs to or because she wants him to be humiliated this way. I fully understand this, as the power exchange in a wife making her husband suck and swallow, for HER, would be very erotic. It would also be very enjoyable for me to be kissing his wife as he sucks and for both of us to enjoy the view! This scenario would soon escalate to creampies for hubby.

1/30/2017 10:02:58 AM
I will say it again, why oh why do people put up profiles without a location? I know the UK is a small country compared to say the US, but Edinburgh to Cornwall is still a whole day's drive, so it would be useful to know at the general area, eg NW, NE, SE, London etc.

The only exception to this is of course people wishing to remain secret or those wanting online only. But if you want to meet someone then PLEASE put your location on your profile. It isn't a difficult task to complete.

Thank you!

1/3/2017 10:42:50 AM
If there are any female subs with an oral fetish, please get in touch.

12/19/2016 12:22:47 AM
I need to find a cuckold couple so I can creampie the wife for him to lick clean.

8/27/2016 2:55:22 PM
Bored of the so-called subs on here. They have so many rules and restrictions, whereas a true sub should just give herself unconditionally. Yes, she will have limits (I said PINK, ow ow ow) but other than the obvious no nos of poo and kids and anything illegal, much more than this can be perceived as the sub topping the dom. The fussier the sub, the more she restricts her possibilities...

7/3/2016 1:51:50 AM
DaddyDreams71 is yet another impolite person. A simple 'No' is sufficient for any enquiry that is not welcomed. Verbal abuse does not sound pleasant from a teenager, let alone from a supposedly mature woman in her 40s.

7/1/2016 9:41:26 AM
Where are all the submissive wives who need to discreetly please another man?

11/27/2015 8:37:13 AM
Any submissive woman want to be trained?

Training would be customised for the individual woman depending on her interests, but it MIGHT include some of the following:

- discipline, including spanking or face slapping
- objectification
- sexual use (fellatio, intercourse)
- watersports
- humiliation and degradation
- psychological control
- age play, including daddy/daughter

Novices/newbies welcome. Training could go slowly.

Limits explored but also respected (where desired).

Just to emphasise, the above list are suggestions, not mandatory activities.

Submissive married women or those in a relationship and needing discretion are welcome.




11/5/2015 4:18:39 AM
AAAARRRRGGGHHHHHHH!

Please please PLEASE stop listing your location as UK.

It is meaningless.

Please list your nearest town/city/county, otherwise what's the point?

There is NO way I will see anyone who is 150 miles from me.

One and a half hours from me, tops.

That's 60-90 miles max.

PS If you are in London, please state where. London is massive city.


9/11/2015 7:39:53 AM
This site is supposedly full of submissive women.

But where are the ones who want to be used sexually? 

The ones who crave fellatio?

Those who need to open their thighs?

8/24/2015 1:06:22 AM

The most annoying things on this site:

1. Its s-l-o-w-n-e-s-s sometimes.
2. People with a blank profile. Hmm, helpful.
3. People who list the location as 'UK'. Yes, even more helpful.


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