"The lover (idolizer) accepts the independence of his Mistress and tries to make himself worthy of her by acting bravely and honorably (nobly) and by doing whatever deeds she might desire ..."

(As of 7/15, though i am quite legitimately single at the moment--i have also embarked on an interesting long-distance possibility that ought preclude me from honorable pursuit of Another. Should this change, i'll disappear this paragraph.)

i'm historically straight, but bicurious, to the extent that those terms even mean anything when you're playing with notions that bend gender to begin with ... which i do like to do, very much.

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Very interested in an LTR with an articulate, strong, progressive, and whip-smart Woman, of any gender.

i'm early-fifties, living in the western US (and happy here), single again, tall, employed, professional, sane; in love with Life and aching to share that delight. I have many years of experience with femdom of various sorts and forms.

i am inclined toward worship in my sexuality. i enjoy idealizing my Partner and obeying them. i'm a natural sexual submissive, and i have been my whole life--though that lust to submit is sometimes in conflict with my otherwise active will to power.

"my Partner" meaning: a Femme soul, with elements of transgenderism more than welcome. i have many bisexual thoughts, but I'm quite virginal with regard to actual Men, and pretty content with that choice. I do like crossdressers and other transgendered people quite a lot. (i've been one myself, at times, when a Lady's desire pushes me that way. Normally though, i look and act classically M, convincingly and with no regrets.)

i like hypnofetish and any other kind of control which is primarily mental and emotional, rather than physical. This is just naturally more erotic to me, although consensual coercion in any form can be hot. Anything dark, wicked, or witchy is also especially welcome. My primary fetish is for feminine power, and for the corresponding corruption, manipulation, and maybe eventually even real diminishment of my own male strength. All of those things to be defined by my Lady.