I am newly single free to pursue my interests. Im very open minded and very nonjudgmental. Sex is not a large part my interests. I prefer to in chastity and denied any sexual pleasure at all. Pain is something that seem to need as I will inflict pain on myself. It satisfies something inside me. A sadist would be my ideal find. Someone who is willing to inflict pain on me and would enjoy the results he or she would get. If you have any questions please ask. I am very and very willing to meet