1/14/2023 10:54:41 AM: Haven't journaled in a while... After having my sub and partner of six and a half years let her undiagnosed mental health issues send her down a path that I couldn't help her with, I decided to chill in the lifestyle and regroup my head.  Relationships can fuck a person up if they're not taking care of themselves, so that's what I did.  Saw to my own well-being.  That said... I'm back, married, proudly pan & proudly poly.  Ironically, she's a fragile flower and this lifestyle, though she finds it hot, is too much for her.  Which is why mine is not a couples profile.  So, dear reader, here's the scoop-. Due to all the cheating people in these apps, yes you'll be able to chat with her and meet her and verify our polyamoury for yourself.  Next, I consider myself an ethical dom and a big believer in SSC/RACK and safewords.  I believe it's a power exchange, and for that to happen, I believe a dom earns respect & trust.  Those things are foundational to everything else.  Who the hell in their right mind, even for sexual gratification, will risk their safety and emotional and mental well being for anything less than a person they trust, respect, and know they are safe with?  Nobody, if they have half a brain. If you're interested or have lifestyle questions, you're welcome to message me.  Let's chat!   I'm an open book with nothing to hide.     Z    

12/19/2015 6:47:06 PM: Journaling to say that for the greatest part, I have found the site enjoyable. It's done wonderfully in aiding to vet and narrow down a potential male sub. I have met some wonderful people and enjoyed doing so. Should anyone actually read this I can honestly say that I finally have my eye on a couple of male submissives worthy of consideration. I can also say that I/we enjoy younger female subs for play and that we are actively seeking like-minded couples for friendship and more. We're a brutally honest and transparent pair and that is very attractive in potential submissives, playmates and in friendships. Don't be bashful, speak up and say hello if you find us interesting. Namaste' Z