I'm here seeking (and hoping for!) a genuine long time or lifelong relationship (partner in crime, best friend, soul mate) with a woman based on mutual compatibility and interests, of which the kinky stuff would be a part, but not a solely defining factor and certainly not a 24/7 lifestyle thing. I am very open to short term and play dates too.

My profile says "switch" which should be taken to mean I like playing both top and bottom roles; but that doesn't necessarily mean I HAVE to.

I am okay with a wide range of ages, 18 to probably early 50s, though I can confess I am very open to younger women who like older men. I may be 55, but I am also very 32 inside.

I do have some photos I would be happy to share if we talk a bit first, otherwise, some discretion and maybe some shyness rule.

If you are here peeking, I hope you will take a look at the "interests" section and see what we have in common. Also, you might be here looking because I sent you a message first...I hope you are curious or adventurous or whatever it is and write back...