I AM LOOKING FOR A SUBMISSIVE ONLY!!

No switches, tops, bottoms, players - just true submissives

 If you are not between the ages of 65 and still functioning, please do NOT CONTACT me.  

If you are not seeking a real time, LTR, FLR, please do NOT CONTACT me.  

If you are married or otherwise attached in any way, please do NOT CONTACT me.  

If you do not have the time or inclination to invest in building a relationship, please do NOT contact me.

If you are local to the Poconos of PA, a big, huge plus.

If you are non-monogamous at all, duplicitous, a liar, a cheat, or secretive, please do NOT CONTACT me.  Don't even go there, you WILL be found out and at my age, I don't have the time to spend just to find out your morality is less than stellar.  Been there, done that, wore out the T-shirt - see my journal entries.

I should not have to say this, but if you are a Dom/me or a switch, (really!?!?!) please look elsewhere.  I am not here to facilitate your excursions to the dark side.

I am a 68 year old, gray haired, wrinkled old lady.  If you are looking for Barbie, pass me by because, within that age range, I am certain you are not Ken.

I am seeking a real time, real life relationship, possible marriage, not a one night stand.  Friendship, affection, blood tests, relationship first, kink later (kink is the easy part!).  Caucasian only please.  Good looks and finances do not impress me - a good heart, honesty, kindness, strong ethics/values system and intelligence does it for me.  I am extremely sapiosexual.  Be smarter than me!  (That is not hard to do!)  Clean, DDF, non-drinker only please.  I am not seeking a slave.  I am looking for a submissive only.

I am a widow, hoping to find someone who shares my interests, both vanilla and kink, to build a full life together.  Would love to meet someone that can be a man in vanilla situations and a submissive in the bedroom.  Someone real, safe, sane and able to move between real life and 'playtime' (no trivialization meant - this is not play to me) with ease.  Someone intelligent, upbeat, willing to try new things, able to and comfortable with suggesting ideas to keep the relationship (and the sex) alive. Someone who is fun to be with and knows how to find the joy in life. The relationship that I envision takes time to build - if you don't have the time and inclination to invest in building a strong bond, please look elsewhere.

I have many vanilla interests and am open to many things I have not yet tried or experienced.  I volunteer for 2 veteran groups and serve on many of their committees and executive boards.  I have a passion for miniatures and hold both a state and local position with national and local miniatures groups.  Reading, metaphysics, lifelong learning, travel are just some of my interests.  

I am NOT a pro - do not insult me with offers of 'tribute' (ridiculous euphemism for payment for services rendered).   Ponder this:  If you pay a pro, and tell her what you want for your money, who is really the sub and who the D???

Any male submissive that meets my requirements (age, etc.) may feel free to write me, however, please start your emails with the word Honorable...If you do not, I will not write back.