The Good:  Older Dom looking for a submissive woman or hetro cuck couple. Not into one night stands. Enjoy BDSM play, Ds, sadism and service as part of the equation. I am reasonably active, considering retirement but still working so evenings or weekends are my time to play. Besides BDSM (spanking, mild sadism, rough sex or simply using you for a quicky) I also enjoy sailing, riding a motorcycle, walks in the woods, and general exploration.  I'm also low key, quite patient and understanding.  I want you to want to serve me and use your intelligence to enhance our play.  I do not want a brat I need to punish, I want a masochist I can use and punish for the fun of it.  My priorities are Health, Family, and only then Serving Me.  I believe we both will get something we desire from the relationship.

The bad:  I have a sub but she is pretty busy now days.  You are filling my needs because she can't, but I will not simply discard her.  If you meet her you will like her but it is not required.  I am also in a sexless marriage.  The wife is sick, it is complicated, so I won't be bringing you to my home for play.  I like to play at a friend's house and have sex in the car, in the woods, or where opportunity presents itself.

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