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SmokesMirrors
Pan Female, 46, Baltimore, Maryland 
SmokesMirrors

**I want to connect with people I can converse and socialize with. I volunteer at and attend kink events and discussions (less now). I am not seeking private-only or traveling interactions, though I am open to making personal connections.**

BDSM is not a novelty for me it is not something I feel needs to be hidden behind closed doors. I like connecting people to their local resources for events, workshops and gatherings, encouraging them to expand their experience safely.

I feel BDSM works best with clear negotiation, research, earned trust and exploration. If youre looking for quick hookups with strangers or "discretion" without including your existing partner(s), save your time for someone else.
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Play partners are friends and people first. I prefer the ability to talk with and be comfortable around someone as a person. Building a rapport is a required step for me. How can I share power and trust with you if I dont know anything about you, or vice versa? Im open to being approached by all genders and dynamics for conversation.

Outside (or inside, depending!) of kink, Im into RPG video games, science fiction, animation, fantasy novels, comic books, boardcard games, and various nerdgeekgoth stuff. I like having at least a few of these things in common with those I spend time with.

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When I play, my focus tends to be on rapport and sensation. I encourage a sense of relaxed playfulness in my interactions regardless of the dynamics in effect. I instigate things between other people quite often, encouraging folks to take actions, aiding in negotiations and facilitating wish-fulfillment.

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Be Responsibly Poly I do not expect exclusivity in fact, it kind of makes me nervous if someone focuses all of their needs on me. All partners should be aware of each others involvement and at least tolerant of each other. I expect plans and relations with me to be valued and respected courteous scheduling is required and cancellationsreschedules should be discussed ASAP.

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I have been involved with kink for over twenty years. I like to talk about things like BDSM methods and power exchange perspectives. I enjoy speaking with and meeting new people, but my main joy is in correspondence and conversation about BDSM.

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I do not believe that gender limits someone to a specific role - if you do, I probably wont be good company for you. All men or women are not all doms or subs, in any combination of the words.

-I am a switch, which means that I have desires on both sides of the coin. Many of the likes listed on my profile are receiving. I do not require all partners to fill all roles I simply like a wide variety, and want partners to enjoy whatever dynamic we find suits us. I NEVER expect both sides to be fulfilled by a single partner please do not offer to switch unless you actually enjoy it. If itll be part of what we do, it needs to be because we are both into doing it.
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I cannot provide or endure large amounts of degradation or emotional cruelty. I am a minor sadist and can enjoy embarrassment, but that is rarely enough for someone who is outright seeking humiliation.

5/21/2022 11:58:44 AM: Oh hey, Journals work again! Still sticking my nose in here now and then.

6/6/2017 3:29:36 PM: Realized that my primary photo is three years old. Not that it misrepresents me or anything, but there. Now there's a new one, plus dildo and j-lube. Be happy. :)

6/6/2017 3:01:28 PM: I need a rewrite; I don't get out enough to lean so heavily on the 'out' part, but I'm still not interested in a closeted, exclusively one-to-one interaction.

6/6/2017 9:20:10 AM: The weather is improving. Spring cleaning and profile browsing time!

9/14/2016 5:53:35 PM: I am usually up for conversation, especially genuine questions or discussion topics. Feel free to message me to talk, regardless of your orientation or dynamic.

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