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Hello! I am seeking a likeminded FEMALE sub, slave or even a Domme as a friend, am married, so friends it is, unless things connect!



So many fake subs and slaves in Collar Space! Get a life.



A NILLA MAN THINKS ABOUT GETTING HIS COCK SUCKED OFF.. A MASTER THINKS ABOUT GETTING HIS SUB OFF....MASTER WILL ALWAYS BE PLEASED.


MyDominant philosophy doesnt come from a website or a book, it comes naturally.


One question, one chance, one honest answer. You can ask me one question (TO MY INBOX ONLY!). Any question, anything, no matter how crazy, dirty or wrong it is. No catch. But I dare you to post this on your status and see what people ask you!

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5/26/2016 1:53:38 AM

regarding women:

 Sir William Gerald Golding CBE

 (19 September 1911 – 19 June 1993) was a British novelist, playwright, and poet. Best known for his novel Lord of the Flies

, he won a Nobel Prize in Literature

, and was also awarded the Booker Prize

 for literature in 1980 for his novel Rites of Passage

, the first book in what became his sea trilogy, To the Ends of the Earth

.

Golding was knighted

 by Elizabeth II

 in 1988.[1]

[2]

 He was a fellow of the Royal Society of Literature

.[1]

 In 2008, The Times

 ranked Golding third on their list of "The 50 greatest British writers

 since 1945".[3]



 " I think women are foolish to think they are equal to men, they are far superior and always have been.  Whatever you give a woman, she will make greater.  If you give her sperm, she'll give you a baby.  If you give her a house, she will give you a home.  If you give her groceries, she'll give you a meal.  If you give her a smile, she'll give you her heart.  She multiplies and enlarges what is given to her.  So, if you give her any crap, be ready to receive a ton of shit!"


10/30/2015 2:54:58 AM
Twelve Traits of a True Dom:  (From a sub's view)

1. He declines being called Sir, Master or any other grandiose title from the start. Until a relationship has been agreed he knows he's a human being just like you, on the same level as you. He will owe you that respect and courtesy from the beginning. He declines being called ego-inflating names unless a dynamic has been explicitly agreed by both parties.

2. He looks after your interests. He will be on your side and will want you to be fulfilled in a relationship. He will be prepared to walk away from a relationship, if he believes your needs will be better met by somebody else. In fact he will be more than happy to introduce you to somebody else who will meet your needs better than him, even if that means he will lose you.

3. He doesn't criticize other people, particularly other doms, behind their backs. He doesn't feel threatened by other Doms and doesn't see them as competition. He doesn't belittle or talk bad about other Doms or tries to eliminate or undermine "competitors".

4. He doesn't try to dominate the conversation or gratuitously lead a group onto something just to prove to everyone and himself how Domly he is. He will let other people have their say, without trying to hoard the limelight. He is a true team player who puts the needs and interests of the group before himself. He is interested in the team winning, not him winning.

5. He doesn't prey on the vulnerable. He doesn't hang around the entrance of munches or clubs looking for "fresh meat". He doesn't try to take advantage of inexperienced submissives and use their lack of knowledge to his advantage. On the contrary, he will protect those new and vulnerable and do what he can to guide them in the right direction.

6. He doesn't instigate politics, bitching and division between camps. He is not prepared to partake in them and will try to minimize conflict whenever possible. He has a conciliatory tone and tries to build bridges, not burn them, whilst still defending what is right.

7. He's approachable. He's friendly and welcoming and accepts everybody as they are. He keeps his ego in check and doesn't carry himself with a swagger or in a threatening or arrogant manner. He's not in possession of the truth. He has a sense of humor and is able to laugh at himself. He knows an überdom is quite the opposite of a true dom.

8. He admits to his mistakes. He's happy to say sorry. He knows that being a Dom doesn't mean he's perfect. He will own up to his errors and will make reparation whenever possible. If he makes a mistake during play he'll apologize sincerely and make sure it doesn't happen again.

9. He's comfortable with a sub who is more intelligent, skilled and capable than him. He knows that being a Dom doesn't mean he has to be the best at everything. He's quite happy to take instruction from her submissive and let her teach him what he doesn't know. As an example, he's happy to take directions from her when he's driving.

10. He has nothing to prove. He's comfortable in his own skin and doesn't need to prove to anybody how "dominant" he is. He doesn't try to live up to some expectation of what a Dom should be. He's confident and sure of himself and is untroubled by others disagreeing with him and having a different approach to dominance than his. He knows who he is and he doesn't need to justify himself to anybody.

11. He doesn't take liberties. He will not boss around a person just because she's submissive. Nor will he grope her either. He will be clear, transparent and specific about how he wants to play, before anything happens. He will not take advantage of someone being in subspace and therefore more vulnerable. He is polite to waiters, clerks and those in serving professions.

12. He's trustworthy. He has a strong sense of integrity, responsibility and compassion. He will stick to his agreements and fulfill his end of the bargain. He will tell the truth and behave with honesty, even if that means he loses out. He's honorable and his word is his bond.


9/26/2015 6:29:44 PM
Golf Item To Avoid:

Keep this in mind the next time you are about to repeat a rumor or spread gossip.         
In ancient Greece (469 - 399 BC), Socrates was widely lauded for his wisdom. One day an acquaintance ran up to him excitedly & said, “Socrates, do you know what I just heard about Diogenes?"   
      
"Wait a moment," Socrates replied, "Before you tell me, I'd like you to pass a little test. It's called the Triple Filter Test." 
        
"Triple filter?" asked the acquaintance.     
    
"That's right," Socrates continued, "Before you talk to me about Diogenes let's take a moment to filter what you're going to say. The first filter is Truth. Have you made absolutely sure that what you are about to tell me is true?"    
     
"No," the man said, "actually I just heard about it."    
     
"All right," said Socrates, "So you don't really know if  it's true or not.  Now let's try the second filter, the filter of Goodness. Is what you are about to tell me about Diogenes something good?" 
  
"No, on the contrary..." 
    
"So," Socrates continued, "You want to tell me     something about Diogenes that may be bad, even though you're not certain it's true?"
     
The man shrugged, a little embarrassed.
  
Socrates continued, "You may still pass the test though, because there is a third filter, the filter of Usefulness. Is what you want to tell me about Diogenes going to be useful to me?" 
      
"No, not really."
        
"Well," concluded Socrates, "If what you want to tell me is neither True nor Good nor even Useful, why tell it to me or anyone at all?"
        
The man was bewildered & ashamed. 
  
This is an example of why Socrates was a great philosopher & held in such high esteem.
 
It also explains why Socrates never found out that Diogenes was banging his wife. 
 

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 San Diego, California