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subbielawyer
Hetero Male, 62, SanPedro, California 
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subbielawyer

submission is not about suffering, submission is about service.
submission is not about humiliation, submission is about humility.
submission is not about pain, submission is about being present.
submission is not about being used, submission is about being of use.
submission is not about control, submission is about letting go.
submission is not about what is done to you, submission is about what you do for others.
submission is not about abuse, submission is about acceptance.
submission is not about proving anything,submission is about being real.
submission is not about contempt, submission is about respect.
submission is not about how you look, submission is about how much you feel.
submission is not about denying yourself, submission is about being open.
submission is not about bondage, submission is about freeing your spirit.
submission is not about punishment, submission is about discipline.
submission is not about being unable to escape, submission is about being committed.
submission is not about subjugation, submission is about obedience.
submission is not about fear, submission is about trust.
submission is not about sex, submission is about love.
submission is not about pleasure, submission is about happiness

I don't like punishment. Punishment means that I have failed my Mistress. Punishment means that I did not manage to anticipate her needs, wants, and desires. Punishment is not good.

Being a Domme does not imply that the Domme is 'better' than the sub. Being a sub does not imply that the sub has no value.  The Domme and and sub are two sides of same the coin - both incomplete without the other.


I am a submissive male. Beyond enjoyment, I need to serve. It is how I am wired. It is how I derive my pleasure. I am also a very dominant, intelligent, and expressive male. I have been in control of most situations most of my adult life. I've managed people for over thirty years. I thrive on being in control. I USED work with heads of companies who did not understand what i did, and therefore, they acquiesced to my recommendations. I love that. It rocks my world.

Back in the 80's i got an education from the US Navy  in nuclear power plant operations. i then spent 20 years learning all about computer operations; networking, security, etc. Then I went to law school. I passed the bar about 12 years ago and now have my own law practice.

All that being said - I need to submit to a woman with whom I have a genuine relationship with, I admire, and i connect with.

It's about a relationship.

It's not about what You wear - the toys you have, the costumes. That's nice, and it's fun, but it's not the point.

The point is you enjoy being in control and having a very dominant male being your very willing submissive. That's all. Apart from that - all can be normal; we can go to dinner, we can meet people, we can interact, we can be vanilla...  But all the time, you will know and I will know that I am yours. Always.

As for expressive - I've told by all who have owned/used me that one of my most endearing traits is that i am so transparent; what you do to me, or what i do to you, will have a readily apparent and appreciative effect upon me. You'll not have to guess.

I get asked what I enjoy; I answer whatever you enjoy. To be precise - I don't like wearing panties; I don't like butt plugs; I don't like chastity. But I will be a panty wearing, plugged chaste male if it's what you want. If it's what makes you happy.

I am a submissive. It's not about my fantasy. It's about yours.

I'm not new to this. I've done this before. Throughout most of the 90's I had the privilege to serve three different Women. Each was unique in their beauty, their desires, and the expectations. As a submissive, I served them to the best of my ability.

I am not a masochist - I do not derive pleasure from pain - yet I spent three years with a woman who enjoyed beating me. Nor do I enjoy spankings - but it was my pleasure to serve a woman who was all about OTK. And I don't enjoy cross-dressing - but I did enjoy serving a woman who required that i was panty
trained..

These are not my fantasies... they were their fantasies. I was the canvas on which they could draw them out and paint them. And that is what makes me happy.


I'm very intelligent. I don't say this as a matter of arrogance; it's a fact. I know that to submit, the woman i am involved with must be as intelligent. It's a deal breaker for me. I can't submit to a fool.

I'm also not a doormat. I don't throw my submission out to all comers - I do send emails from time to time, looking for someone, but it's not the same thing.

I need to serve. I need that woman who understands me, and can appreciate what I have to offer. I need to look into your eyes and know, that with all we share, my submission means something to you. That no matter what you make me endure, when all is said and done, we will be together, and I will
have served you, and you will be happy for that service.

This is not to say that I don't have hard limits or that I don't have activities I enjoy. The former is restrictive, the latter is immaterial apart from what You want to do with it.

Best of luck and regards to all.

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