It's not bondage until you want out, and then the fun is just beginning. My primary fetishes are "cold cruel reality" and "be careful what you wish for".

Me, 42 yo, 6'4", divorced, single, professional, clean-cut, and VERY experienced in heavy bondage. I'm looking for an experienced and sane dominant or dominants to explore consensual long-duration bondage and confinement.

I am a lifelong bondage freak. I'm very experienced in being tied up tight for shorter durations - up to 72 hours.  I understand what it is to be struck by sudden claustrophobia, the panic, and I know how to contain the panic and get through it.  I know what it's about when the initial thrill is long gone and things just get grueling. Above all else, I cherish all s of genuine suffering in bondage, both the physical and mental, and the spiritual nature of successfully pushing through.

I'm looking for an experienced dominant or dominants who knows his/her/their bondage, is capable of and amenable to consensual high-security, long-duration scenes ranging from a long weekend up to three weeks. Someone experienced enough to know when to push and when to back off. Safety is paramount for both of us, but obviously I understand this'll involve plenty of bruising and marks.

I have enough experience to know the challenges of extended bondage but am also cognizant that there are probably further challenges with going beyond what I've already done. While I have plenty of experience, I'm not stupid or naive enough to claim to being some sort of tough guy who can handle everything you can dish out or say that I have no limits.

While I'm more than happy to play with others doing heavy bondage for much shorter durations (hey - reach out!), I am very much interested longer sessions that are physically and mentally exhausing, as well as mindfucks.

I'm interested in all sorts of bondage - leather, rope, metal, rubber, tape, you name it, so long as it's secure. While I hate wearing them, I appreciate the need for a good gag (or a few) and the special torment they inflict.  Enjoy hoods, breath restriction, bodybags, straightjackets, you name it - and am very interested in serious sensory deprivation/control.  Oh, I'm a masochist too. I know it's not in most guys interests (and not by any means necessary), but am also interested in forced feminization/emasculation.

Sexually - let's discuss, but well, it's really up to you and what you want, now, isn't it? Men - I am straight-identifying, I'm not dying to have sex with you, far from it.  Yes, I am absolutely turned on by all kinds of restraint and bondage in a powerful way, but tying me up isn't going to turn me into a slut dying for sex with you.

Again, consent and safety are key. It is important to me that my consent and our limits and rules are 100% clear, and that I walk away from this without lasting damage. These are obviously important anytime, but expecially so for longer duration play, so I expect to take time and care working things out with you.

Long-term slavery?  Believe me I've thought about it - frankly I never quite feel right as a person when I'm free. I've always wanted to live day to day in a home with a cage and restraints that aren't just props or used only occasinally. Obviously something like this requires someone local and doesn't start from day 1, but I have an open mind.

Interested?  Please write.  Have some ideas that are a bit different than what I put here?  Ask. Some people see enduring suffering as a bad or destructive thing, but my soul has always needed to go there again and again and after recovering feel uplifted, stronger. You know what I'm talking about. We both come away from play satisfied and better for it.

Picture available for serious inquiries and I'm happy to meet in person in advance.