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DomKirkland

I am a kind and loving Daddy Dom and Dominant but I can turn on the aggressive side of me when you are ready for that. I am Ying and Yang, the soft side and the hard side. I can be very controlling at times but at the same time not be an ass about it. I can be stroking your face one minute, the next pulling your hair, and spanking your ass as you are laid over my knee. I am safe, sane, DDF, and I expect the same from my partner(s). I currently don't have a sub / little girl/slave. Am monogamous, and single. My hard limits are: Scat play
Blood Play
Children
Animals
Needles and medical play
Knives
Miley Cyrus, One Direction, and Zamfir Pan Flute music
Endless cat pictures forwarded to me
MLM schemes
Playing drunk Go Fish
Getting sand in my grommet
Pissing on my head and tell me that it is raining
Fucking with my head, no, not that head I do enjoy impact play within reason and all kinds of bondage that make you go into sub space and I growl in delight. Marks and scratches establish my territory. I have also had several Master / sub relationships which were enriching and very fun. Their tolerance for pain varied greatly, but impact and bondage play were always the primary scene. Candle wax, violet wand, and nipple play were fun too. I have had a wonderful Daddy / little one relationship with a gal that was 32. We both enjoyed that dynamic and it was a true learning experience for both of us. I have had one slave under my wing but she wanted me to draw blood when I was beating her with a belt, so that was not what I wanted. So if you are a slave, I don't want to pulverize your ass, but I will spank, whip, cane, and crop it. I do like the power exchange dynamic, of the woman turning control over to me and letting me "drive" so to speak. I have met powerful business in their daytime work that desperately needed me to control them in their private time, they were tired of making decisions all day long, and they trusted me to make them for them. I once sequestered a woman in a hotel room for five straight days where she turned everything over to me, and I pleased both of us, her letting me touch her the way I wanted, and her total submission to me. That was a very special time... Am physically and mentally Dominant, bearded, built like a lumberjack, and I do not need a T-shirt to prove it. If you want to be a SAM (Smart Ass Masochist), do so at your own peril :} I can train that out of you, and the journey there can be very fun. If you at this moment are saying, right Mr. Big talker, well have the guts to say that to my face, and then we will see you eat those words and thoughts :} Despite the serious nature of this profile, I am a fun loving, humorous Dom, with a sense of adventure and optimism about a great journey that we can have together. I am very patient with my partner and since I make mistakes too, I hope to find someone that can forgive. I need a partner that wants to work towards better communication and is willing to share how past hurts have shaped their life and how we can work past those issues. The misuse of the word literally makes me figuratively insane :} I enjoy many kinds of movies, from comedies, action, drama, to stories taken from real life. I like some sci-fi like Star Wars and Star Trek, eeeeehhh gads. I do not watch much TV and I do like watching shows on NetFlix and Amazon Prime. The Wire was an amazing series and I binge watched it, really awesome writing and acting. I like to write, including working on a screenplay to be turned into a movie someday, and a technical blog because I love computers and technology. I am a computer geek deluxe and no, I will not fix your computer hahahaha I enjoy going to the beach and just hanging out or a road trip to nowhere specific. Sometimes I have to romp in the forest to get my mojo back in tune. I am kind to children, the elderly, and animals. If you abuse any of them I will be in your grill! I have traveled the world and seen many good things and terrible things. And I have had several jobs that brought much joy in helping others and distraught over seeing people get hurt or killed. I would say I have a ton of stories about life in general and I like to hear your stories too. Good luck in your search!
MsNameless
 
 Age: 39
 Dunedin, New Zealand