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WELL IT HAPPENED!!!!! The move to Savannah has happened!!!

So what now? Well I'm working on me!

I had the gastric sleeve and it is still a work in process.

Now I entered this lifestyle almost 23 years ago as a submissive. While I have both experienced being a Switch and Dom I find that those roles do not fulfill an inner need. While I am most effective being dominant in my vanilla life and I suppose even in my Ds life I am always left needing more. More? What is more? I dont know but Im going to find it.

Let me put facts on the table. Im not a little girl in size and over the few years my body is going through alot of changes. I've slow down my weight loss to try and control the excess skin but with the amount of weight I'm losing there will be lots of excess skin. So after the weight loss will do the skin removal. So if you're looking for perfection I'm not your girl even if I wasn't having surgery I wouldn't be her and still won't be her.

I am looking for a relationship but there must be boundaries and negotiations.

1. You will never control my credit cards, bank accounts or what I spend. I have my own income and My own credit. That is not negotiable.

2. My daughters will never be part of our relationship. So there is no mother-daughter action here.

.3. I am not a slave. I have no slave tendencies. I have no interest in being a slave.

4. I am a baby girl therefore I'm looking for a DADDY not someone who has to fake it.

5. I'm not looking for a poly relationship. I will never be the second place to anything but your children and maybe your dog. I've been down that road and it didn't work.

6. I am a babygirl, you can call me that. Sweetheart honey bun etc you see the pattern? Don't call me cunt, pig or anything else degrading. I will delete and block.

I am not a piece of ass so if that's what you're seeking, I'm not that girl. I expect to go on real dates and I expect you to take the time to know and understand me. I'm a little old fashion in the sense I expect a man to open the door, walk on the side of traffic etc.

I'm not opposed to someone younger than me but I need you to have an older soul.

2/24/2023 7:20:51 AM: 2/24/2023 Soo where to start. I have a friend who said with everything I went through last year something amazing was coming this year. With that being said I got a new job that is freaking amazing. It allows me to work anywhere in the United States as long as I maintain certain licenses here in the state of Florida. And I'll finally be able to buy and build the house and I've been dreaming about forever. Still need land but I'm working on it. I'm not sure what I'm looking for with the lifestyle but I'm leaving Florida first of May. I just need to figure out where I am going. Life's a dance you learn as you go.

3/20/2022 2:40:05 PM: Sooo I know I want a relationship but until one is found why can't I just find steady dick? Is that so much to ask for?

2/18/2022 2:51:21 PM: I can't believe this is back. But for my first rent please do not enter my email telling me how vanilla I am and you don't know me. I may not be the kind of sub you're looking for and that's okay. I'm not going to tell you you're not a Dom just because you're not the kind of Dom that I'm looking for. This lifestyle is unique and the fact that you can pick and choose what works for you. It is also refreshing because it's a no judgment zone. The minute you judge another person by your standards, you are not living the lifestyle. If that person isn't what you think they should be, walk away. Any attempt to belittle them, degrade them or plan out bully them shows exactly that you have no business in this lifestyle.

10/23/2017 4:04:43 PM: You know what really cracks me up? When a man enters your email thinks to demand you call him Sir? And when you call him on his bullshit now you're a bitch? Guys let's get something straight I am not a cookie cutter sub that just because you capitalize your name thinks that the sun rises and sets in your ass. A real Dom never has to demand anything it comes naturally. If you if you're the kind of man who thinks that he can call a woman out of her name in a derogatory sense or because she won't bow down to you gives you the right to berate her then yeah you're an abuser and you should really skip my profile.

8/11/2017 11:25:34 AM: I am just having a moment.Where are all the rough necks? You know who you are. The ones when you spank a girl her ass can be seen from space.And when you fuck her, she walks funny for a week. When you walk out the door all she can do is *sigh* and is willing to do almost anything for you to come back.You know you are. I need you!!!!

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