Hey how's it going everyone?  My name is Nate, I am 42, 6', and 271 lbs. I have been into the BDSM lifestyle for about 25 years, I was a teen when I get into it. I haven't had a partner really in awhile, I had some time alone to reflect. Now though I am back and want to get back into it really badly. 

    I believe being a Dominant is about more than just sex or even control. I have a need to control, take care of, and protect. A true Dom is a patient teacher, a stern father, and a strong warrior. It's more than being a fuck boi. 

    So I would love to get to know people in the lifestyle again. I have few contacts these days. Most of these sites are just a pain in the ass full of scammers or 1000's of guys message bombing girls. I want something real and worthwhile so I am willing to work towards it.